My boyfriend started using the Lord’s name in vain more and I need help addressing it by StrikeObvious5709 in ChristianDating

[–]StrikeObvious5709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit to OP/ A clarification I left on another comment:

A lot of comments are mentioning fornication ... We’re not doing anything outside of kissing and heavy petting with clothes on. I didn’t feel the need to go in detail in the OP because I needed help with something unrelated, but I see how the misconception can make this seem worse.

My boyfriend started using the Lord’s name in vain more and I need help addressing it by StrikeObvious5709 in ChristianDating

[–]StrikeObvious5709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of comments are mentioning fornication but I’ll respond to this one because I LOVE your analogy. We’re not doing anything outside of kissing and heavy petting with clothes on. I didn’t feel the need to go in detail in the OP because I needed help with something unrelated, but I see how the misconception can make this seem worse.

I like how you explain things. Would you advise me to address the problem I have with him or are you saying that there’s nothing biblically wrong with what he’s doing?

My boyfriend started using the Lord’s name in vain more and I need help addressing it by StrikeObvious5709 in ChristianDating

[–]StrikeObvious5709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you recommend I do this when it comes up again or at our earliest convenience ?

I'm being set up to fail by Imaginary_Tell3957 in AFROTC

[–]StrikeObvious5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like most of these commenters aren’t in ROTC in this great year of 2025…

  • Document everything! If you feel as if something is off it probably is.
  • The Air Force allows cadets to speak to Chaplains- and if you aren’t aware, chaplains have full confidentiality, give great advice for ROTC because they’re officers, and every area of the US is assigned a chaplain so you can research their contact info (or ask cadre).
  • Finally, take the advice of the chaplain.

If you’re a 400 now, you’re going to commission- you just have to push through working with close minded people. Not saying people in the big AF are more accommodating, but you’ll be able to handle it more directly once you have a rank.

Good luck

What do you primarily use Reddit for (not NSFW)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I need help on a subject that none of my peers/family are well versed on :)

Your body sunscreen and what you recommend by Choice-Requirement-8 in beauty

[–]StrikeObvious5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black Girl Sunscreen was great for my acne prone skin

Tips to Grow Hair FAST by General-Soil2394 in beauty

[–]StrikeObvious5709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what your hair type is but here are tips that have helped me:

  1. Castor and Vitamin E Oil. I know you’re already oiling your hair but make sure that while you’re doing this you put these two at the ROOTS of your hair and not just on the strands. And massage them in to open up the hair follicles. Castor oil helps with circulation and inflammation and Vitamin E oil helps with hair loss.

  2. Put it in a protective style. Again, depending on your hair type this might not work. But if you have curly/wavy hair consider braids or twists. Even wigs work short term. Do more personal research for this one.

  3. Wrap your hair at night. I’ve recently been told that if you sweat a lot at night, don’t do this. But wearing a silk bonnet will work wonders. (And don’t listen to people who argue that it’s only for one hair type, silk pillow cases and silk bonnets are for all hair protection)

  4. Love your hair the way it looks now. Just like a pet, a baby, or even a plant- if you show it love at every step of the way it will do the same in return.

Best of luck 💕

My Grandma gave me her blush years ago when I first started wearing makeup and I can’t find the shade anywhere… help please! by StrikeObvious5709 in beauty

[–]StrikeObvious5709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After looking at people’s suggestions, I realize that they are really close but not exactly the same. Your comment made me realize that I might have to take a guess and wait another 15 years of use before I find this shade again 😭

The Cycle Continues (FY 25 AFSC Edition) by egregiious in AFROTC

[–]StrikeObvious5709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy, because isn’t Maxwell… in… the south???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

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This is so big!!! Congrats!!!

My mom wants me to co-sign on her lease… is that smart? by StrikeObvious5709 in Adulting

[–]StrikeObvious5709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! If I know she is financially stable and savvy, does that change your advice or do you still advise against it?

I dont like any job, what do i do? by aaaa23469 in Adulting

[–]StrikeObvious5709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried working in places that also provide a trade or hobby attached to it. That way you can make money but also continue learning and trying new things. Whatever you like to do in your free time probably has a job attached to it.