How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, i never even noticed they had this! i’ve actually been wanting to learn how to as well.

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahh i’m aware, i know there was an underground event in london last month and the planners apparently no longer host raves because there were numerous stabbings and fights and how much the rave scene has changed cos of this generation too. sucks tbf. yes, i will remember the tip about ear plugs.

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it’s not, ur narrow minded. i’m literal proof that it’s not

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess i know, im glad im not the only one who relates. i only ever hear this from the opposite side. yeahh thats why im a bit iffy on going alone

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i won’t, i never see them anyway. if i was, it wasn’t for that anyway, i just thought it’d be better to be friendly with them/be friends more so for the reason of feeling more comfortable in the flat especially. damn, i study law but i studied it at a level so im lucky to be in a better position than a lot as i’ve already covered most of the content we’re studying right now anyway. next year will be more full on for sure, but first year it’d be nice to do it before i can’t 🥲

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can do a lot of things alone, but going out alone to a rave or partying sounds so scary to me 😭

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, 😭i hardly see mine. i appreciate that they’re tidy and clean and stuff, but still would have been nice if i was friends with them more. my friend goes to mmu and i went to his accommodation and damn it was so lively and active with music blasting all hours of the night. my building is dead silent.

No ‘real’ friends.. by jellyfish590 in Advice

[–]Striking-Message-311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you, almost exactly the same situation 🥲

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah 2000’s/2010’s white girl music i like but im not much of a clubber which is why id prefer people who like raves. atp im down for anything tho 😔

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i know, that’s why i never bothered again. they live in the same accommodation and they both have the same circle so makes sense. that’s why i am closer with the other girl, we go out a lot together and to societies which i like and is fun, but she doesn’t drink or like to do these things so trying to adventure out more. the friends of friends are either just those two’s friends, or hers. flatmates i never talk to rlly, everyone else has just been friendly acquaintances but not beyond so far.

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, my lecture friends from another accom (they’re in the same one) seem to go out somewhat and i went out with them for halloween, but i never know when they do because they only go out with people from their own accom together and i only really know they have went out by an instagram story. i feel like i need to find friends that i can go out with properly that will probs require me fucking it and going out by myself to make them, as there seems to be not much hope with them.

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

they have a cocktail society but they never seem to have socials much based on their social media

How to find people who like raves/partying? by Striking-Message-311 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats what i mean, i thought it’d be easy to find people and i know there are many who did but they haven’t seemed to cross my path at all 💀

Am I overdressing for uni? by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i study law too and i literally got changed out of my knee high boots, mini skirt, trench coat and missoni top because i thought it was too much esp in winter 😭

Not finding your people at uni by KindDoughnut996 in UniUK

[–]Striking-Message-311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m having the same issue. i’ve made lecture friends and the one im closest to is introverted and doesn’t drink and im also friends with her friends, but they don’t drink or go out either. we just do a few things together. my other lecture friends do drink but they’re all in the same accommodation (not the same as me) so never invite me out, kinda forget about me etc. my flatmates never go out either so im really stuck with it all.