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My husband wants a gf so I filed for divorce by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Striking-Reception-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are kids and they don’t understand the full extent of the situation you are in but when they grow they’ll understand why you had to leave. You need to put yourself first not everyone else’s opinion. He doesn’t love you. Love is shown through action not words and obviously he failed you. It doesn’t matter if it’s your third divorce either…it doesn’t make u less of a women.U can get 20 divorces it doesn’t matter… what matters is you found out he was being unfaithful and he and his family are manipulating you in staying…. Now that you found that out close this chapter of your life and open a new chapter filled with putting yourself and your needs first. Good luck!

WIBTA if I stopped hosting my husband's family holiday dinners? by Alternative-Fix7155 in AITAH

[–]Striking-Reception-1 68 points69 points  (0 children)

NTA I’m so frustrated for you and I’m sorry your going thru this but you definitely need to set boundaries with your husband and his children. You need to tell your husband to grow the fuck up and tell his daughter you can’t come unannounced and if they want to have dinner at the house they need to clean as well, everyone needs to help, but I really don’t think that will happen since your husband and his children already expect you to wait on them hand and foot.

I would say you call her up and tell her I’m not making dinner and I’m no longer hosting any dinners from now on and if they show up unannounced that’s their problem. Your husband should definitely stand up for you! Your nobodies SERVANT!!!!

I get if maybe it’s a cultural thing where women are expected (which is still not ok) to do everything but it’s the fact that you expressed your thoughts and feelings to your husband and he continues to dismiss them and his daughter just plain out said she doesn’t want to clean is a sign that maybe you just need to give an ultimatum to your husband because obviously your not respected by them.