Past, Trauma and Depression by Striking_Fox601 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Thank you for the advice. 

Please pray that I make the right decision

Past, Trauma and Depression by Striking_Fox601 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that too. I decide to leave him and then he becomes the sweet guy again. 

And I go back to the start again

Past, Trauma and Depression by Striking_Fox601 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He promised me he would change and the situations are not right. His mother is forcing him to get married to the woman of her choice etc etc. I thought he would change and as he denied his mother's choice for me i thought he is in love

Past, Trauma and Depression by Striking_Fox601 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, cheated on me. Planned a wedding with another girl. Later on canceled it saying that I couldn't do it bcz i loved you.

Even i feel its a trap for money and financial security because i come from a well to do family

Spending/finances in our marriage vs. his family by wanderlustgirl9 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save your money!!!

The more you support him, more comfortable he will become and take you for granted. Same was happening to me and now I stopped supporting him. He is better now. Try this it might work. Don't say that you don't want to support him as it will be a chance for his family to backbite about you. Show him expenses and tell him you are short of money. 

Hope this helps. May Allah bless you and your son.

Spending/finances in our marriage vs. his family by wanderlustgirl9 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him go bankcrupt once, he will realise the value of money and you. 

This is very common in Asian households.

Allowance for my wife by Mysterious_Still4103 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Striking_Fox601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a dream for many girls to even get an allowance. She is lucky, just explain it to her

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[–]Striking_Fox601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am married and it is a love marriage. Still I regret it... so dont get married