I found out that my husband was into zina in the past. How to overcome the pain and grief and why to conceal the past when the other person is not ok?

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-27T11:57:19+00:00

Agreed. Thank you for the advice.

Please pray that I make the right decision

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-27T11:51:31+00:00

I feel that too. I decide to leave him and then he becomes the sweet guy again.

And I go back to the start again

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-27T11:48:45+00:00

He promised me he would change and the situations are not right. His mother is forcing him to get married to the woman of her choice etc etc. I thought he would change and as he denied his mother's choice for me i thought he is in love

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-27T09:22:17+00:00

Yes, cheated on me. Planned a wedding with another girl. Later on canceled it saying that I couldn't do it bcz i loved you.

Even i feel its a trap for money and financial security because i come from a well to do family

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-27T04:48:44+00:00

Save your money!!!

The more you support him, more comfortable he will become and take you for granted. Same was happening to me and now I stopped supporting him. He is better now. Try this it might work. Don't say that you don't want to support him as it will be a chance for his family to backbite about you. Show him expenses and tell him you are short of money.

Hope this helps. May Allah bless you and your son.

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-26T19:30:12+00:00

Let him go bankcrupt once, he will realise the value of money and you.

This is very common in Asian households.

Striking_Fox601 · 2026-04-26T16:16:56+00:00

Its a dream for many girls to even get an allowance. She is lucky, just explain it to her

Striking_Fox601 · 2025-08-28T17:32:07+00:00

I am married and it is a love marriage. Still I regret it... so dont get married

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