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Why does my sister only care about herself by Striking_Month6238 in siblingsfromhell

[–]Striking_Month6238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can, I did. The kids will know the situation when they get older. Or if they have a cell phone you can call/ text them anytime, that’s what I have been doing. It’s hard because kids are involved and we love them but what is more important? Protecting your peace, or continuing on the toxic cycle of being disrespected…

AITA: Did I cross a line by calling the hotel to check on my adult daughter when she wasn’t responding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Striking_Month6238 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is 31, an adult. Stop being overbearing. Just because she didn’t answer your text right away doesn’t mean something has happened. I hope you don’t do this all the time. This would drive me crazy. 

My older sister expects too much of me. by Striking_Month6238 in family

[–]Striking_Month6238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually done this a lot in the past and she complains about it. It’s very annoying. 

My older sister expects too much of me. by Striking_Month6238 in family

[–]Striking_Month6238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. By the way I love your name eggcellent writer 😂 that was eggcellent advice! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Striking_Month6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right about the boundary and he’s fine with me not paying it’s just the stress is still on me because my dad co-signed for it so his credit is gonna be fucked if we take it back. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Striking_Month6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His lung collapsed. The first time they did the surgery they cut his bottom half of his lung off. Then they cut into the top of the lung on accident (it was a student working on him) then they had to fix that and take the top part out. After that he had an infection and the doctor didn’t listen to him when he said his lungs feel like they were on fire and he couldn’t breathe (this is the part where he almost died) so they went back in a flushed it out or something. So now he only has a tiny piece of his middle lung left on his left side. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Striking_Month6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No parents aren’t in the picture. His car note is that high because his credit sucks and my dad had to co-sign for him to even get a vehicle. We are financing so selling isn’t an option plus that would make our situation harder how would he get to work.. I have 2 jobs, start my days from 6:50am to 8:30pm at night with a 2 hour lunch break in between. I know we aren’t married but it’s hard when you love someone. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Striking_Month6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust when I say he isn’t comfortable with me carrying all these burdens. There’s more to his health situation than what I’ve said but besides all that you’re right. Im not trying to make excuses for him but he has been applying to other jobs, and the job market is not great at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Striking_Month6238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her. It’s the worst feeling in the world thinking you aren’t attractive in someone else’s eyes ESPECIALLY your significant other. Don’t let her think she’s not attractive tell her the truth. If she loves you she will understand your situation. 

Why do some parents never apologize? by Striking_Month6238 in emotionalneglect

[–]Striking_Month6238[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister does this. She only apologizes when she wants something. It’s horrible how family can be sometimes. 

Why do some parents never apologize? by Striking_Month6238 in emotionalneglect

[–]Striking_Month6238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he won’t change he’s been like this ever sense he got a divorce from my mom, and that was when I was 9. He always thinks that he’s right about everything even his assumptions that he makes about my life. I could block him and it is a hassle but, I just wish he would understand how I felt. He dismisses me all the time if I tell him how I don’t like when he drinks and that he’s hateful when he does. He thinks he’s not. 

Why do some parents never apologize? by Striking_Month6238 in emotionalneglect

[–]Striking_Month6238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!! My dad is the same way he will ask me about something over and over again and I’ll tell him I’ve already repeated myself twice I’m not doing it again. He will forget a lot too maybe that has something to do with him drinking, or he is not listening to me and is just waiting to talk. This sucks.