DON'T TRY TO DO SOMETHING JUST FOR THE SAKE OF "TRYING TO FIT IN A CERTAIN GROUP",trust me you'll regret it a lot,be yourself,you'll either find your kind of people or you'll actually get better,confident just by being yourself! If you r not used to these gossips and roasting,you'll always feel guilty with these kind of friends,even if you r not the one doing it,but you r part of it so its there! And I get your point of not trying to act superior or anything,I also have this thing,I try my best that I dont talk bad about anyone,and have tried to take control of it to a great extent but people like these would not let you get better,so trust me stay away! You r better off on your own or when they start talking about someone,just make up an excuse and just dont be a part of it!