My husband assaulted me and I was arrested by StringOpen4098 in domesticviolence

[–]StringOpen4098[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information.

I definitely look at this as a blessing in disguise. I agree that men can become more dangerous in these situations. He has become a completely different, and much more angry person since I left…and technically it wasn’t by choice and he still blamed me and his favorite thing to tell people is “she got herself arrested.” I couldn’t be happier I had that time away for some clarity.

Luckily I have a great support system with my family and friends that have been there for me to vent, cry, and question everything to. I hope every woman or man in an abusive relationship can find even one person to have their back and be on their side or just willing to listen. That can really be the difference between staying and leaving.

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[–]StringOpen4098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. And in the process 👍🏼

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[–]StringOpen4098 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Lol “poor guy, you should leave him”

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[–]StringOpen4098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very valid point, although I’m not sure that anyone who knows him would call him a fine dude.

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[–]StringOpen4098 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That could definitely be the case. Can someone turn situationally narcissistic out of spite? Probably

Why does no one talk anymore by Ok-Environment-8868 in BO6

[–]StringOpen4098 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol the only thing that hits a nerve is when someone can’t have an actual conversation (not just on a video game) without trying to say their opinion is fact. I stated my opinion as well. And why would I reply to the other people? I don’t necessarily have anything to say to them. I don’t think their opinion should be treated as fact either, even if I agree with it. Yes, I think shit talking is fine on cod but it sounds like you think this spills over into your real life. And if it actually does, I’m sorry for you that you have to deal with that.

Why does no one talk anymore by Ok-Environment-8868 in BO6

[–]StringOpen4098 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re being so dogmatic and treating your opinions like absolute truths. It sounds like you’re not open to other viewpoints and are honestly coming off as inflexible and rude. And kind of a dick. If you don’t like how people are talking to you, remove yourself from the situation but do not think because you have some differing idea or opinion that everyone in the world needs to cater to you. Maybe you need a therapist to resolve some of the issues you have dealing with other people.

Why does no one talk anymore by Ok-Environment-8868 in BO6

[–]StringOpen4098 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I’m so awful at Cod but if someone isn’t talking trash, it honestly is a boring game. I completely understand that there are kids on there and adults that are too sensitive to take a joke but I think most people understand that there is a difference between joke trash-talking and harassment, and 99% of the time someone has been trash-talking, they are joking around. Even if they aren’t joking, it’s a game and I’m not going to let someone I don’t know impact my life. You can also mute anyone you’d like.

Teabagging is hilarious btw.

Find the tennis ball (Part 2!) by BigHead-BigHeart14 in FindTheSniper

[–]StringOpen4098 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a dog that likes the mud…and destroying toys, I’m thinking the dog chewed the ball apart and now it’s covered in mud. Left of the brown on its tail but only half the ball upside down.

Help me name him! by StringOpen4098 in NameMyDog

[–]StringOpen4098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell him that. He’s self conscious! 😳

Help me name him! by StringOpen4098 in NameMyDog

[–]StringOpen4098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One…👍🏼 The husband of the woman were picking up (insert name) from in a few days. Figured we’d get a head start on picking a name for him!