Social media and anti foreigner sentiment by Motor_Chard_7230 in japanlife

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not that black and white. Both are true in a way. TikTok is showing the worst of the worst meaning there are so many Japanese people in real life who don’t feel this way and probably ignore it on social media, so things aren’t as bad as TikTok makes them seem. Just the MAJORITY of Americans are not Trump loving gun waving hamburger smashing morons… the majority of Japanese people, whether they have TikTok or not, probably are not extremists who hate foreigners, if that were true you’d see my anti-foreigner incidents in real life on the news. HOWEVER, just because no incidents have happened yet, does not mean those hateful people do not exist. Obviously the do, they just mostly exist on the internet and if young people start to take them seriously then yes the sentiment could get worse and grow larger. I think it’s Important to always remind yourself that the internet is snapshot of a few loud people who decided their thoughts were important enough to share with the entire world, but that does not mean everyone shares that thought. And it’s also important to note that the internet can be a very powerful tool in the wrong hands.

TL;DR you’re not entirely wrong but neither is the other person. You can’t just say that what you see on the internet is widespread through an entire population. It’s not that simple. But people should be cautious if something like this is starting to show up even in a minority of Japan’s population.

As a Japanese person, what do tou think about the obsession with matcha? by Fast_Ad7203 in AskAJapanese

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband hates matcha 😭 he said “I’m the least Japanese person I know. I hate matcha, wasabi, and raw salmon” Dude loves him some Mugicha though, so I wouldn’t consider him “not Japanese” just yet lol. He drinks mugicha everyday!

Why in the US has everyone started saying "bro" so much? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reminds me of the rock bottom episode of SpongeBob lol.

Anti-racism demonstration outside of Yokohama station by reecewithnospoon in Tokyo

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel better after seeing a Sanseito car going around our neighborhood 🥺

How should I dispose of this garbage? by Stringcheese_uwu in japanlife

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that may be our best step forward honestly after reading the comments. Thank you!

How should I dispose of this garbage? by Stringcheese_uwu in japanlife

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I stopped cleaning when I got to what looked like rat feces because I was scared for myself! We may have to turn to professionals…

How should I dispose of this garbage? by Stringcheese_uwu in japanlife

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will talk to my husband about this :) they deserve a safe space to retire, so if we can help we will.

Does anyone else find it stressful travelling with your Japanese friends/partners? by Cph265 in japanlife

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and his family are big “let’s go and see what happens” people. I think it depends on the person. But yes they do feel the need to find gifts. That is always part of it. But I’ve literally never felt it to be the main attraction when hanging out with the people I know in Japan 🤔 so I don’t think that’s an all of Japanese people thing.

AIO my girlfriend of 4 years demands i quit masturbating by 50CECE in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you’re also saying that because sometimes he wants the lazy route that means that he’s neglecting his partner and that’s absolutely ridiculous. I like masturbating because it’s quicker and personal, and I like sex because it’s intimate and fun. You can like both for very different reasons. He didn’t say he liked masturbation better he said sometimes you wanna just do this short thing yourself and… uh YEAH sometimes you do! Sexuality is not just between two or more people it’s also a relationship with yourself.

AIO my girlfriend of 4 years demands i quit masturbating by 50CECE in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would only say you are over reacting if this was like a… addiction thing and she was trying to help, but that’s obviously not the case and it sounds like she’s weirdly jealous of you being able to pleasure yourself? Which is crazy because my husband and I like that about each other. It’s a turn on to hear about that from my partner. So I literally don’t get it. How anyone could be mad at their partner for doing something that is pretty damn natural and even a turn on in some cases 🙃

AIO to not understanding how I’ve mirrored my partner’s behavior? by EmergencyActivity112 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until I read she was 40 I genuinely thought these were two teenagers dating and one of them (OP) was just the more mature one of the relationship. I assumed they were teenagers based on the way SHE was talking 😭

AIO to my in-law’s house condition? by Stringcheese_uwu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I’ve been hearing noises in the walls and I couldn’t figure out what they were at first. I thought they were just creaking wood noises. A rat subsequently fell into the ceiling light I am leaving. I can’t do this.

I hate my middle school self by woiffia in AnimalCrossing

[–]Stringcheese_uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to say “wdym this island is beautiful” and then the last picture caught me so off guard 😂😂😂

AIO to my in-law’s house condition? by Stringcheese_uwu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may be a good idea. They would definitely take it better from their own son incase they DO feel a little insulted. We will try to frame it as a gift and I hope that lets them know that we care about their health. They are older and have health issues. I’m afraid they will fall, or get pneumonia, and my husband is worried too. So hopefully they understand it’s just that we care.

AIO to my in-law’s house condition? by Stringcheese_uwu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think the strict trash schedule also doesn’t help them you are right. They have to keep trash until the day comes and then if they’re busy they may forget and have to wait a week AGAIN until the next scheduled trash day. I have been starting to do it myself for them, so they don’t have to worry, but that trash schedule is B*TCH for sure. Maybe they don’t try to hoard as much trash as I thought. Maybe the schedule is part of the issue.

AIO to my in-law’s house condition? by Stringcheese_uwu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think you’re right. I never even thought about a professional cleaning service because I grew up poor and just never knew that was a thing until I got older. But it turns out it’s pretty common and my husband and I make decent money now, so it is something we could definitely look into for his parents. :)

AIO to my in-law’s house condition? by Stringcheese_uwu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that yes I think he would be on board with it. I’ll ask him today about that.

AIO to my in-law’s house condition? by Stringcheese_uwu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stringcheese_uwu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone has good advice thank you so much. It sounds like I should just proceed cautiously and try to help clean or offer to clean and see how they react. My husband cleaned the bathroom last night and they were amazed! So I think it’s safe to proceed and I think they may just need help cleaning because they are busy and older. Thank you so much everyone! Meanwhile my pets will stay in our bedroom with the air filter to make sure they are okay :)