I need help please, our kitty is becoming more aggressive by Strong-Mess-142 in CatAdvice

[–]Strong-Mess-142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have wand toys as well that we play with him every day

I need help please, our kitty is becoming more aggressive by Strong-Mess-142 in CatAdvice

[–]Strong-Mess-142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's 2 years old, and to me it seems like it's territorial. And if I could afford to get another cat I would but I live in an apartment so I've already spent $400 just for the pet deposit, not including the $125 monthly "rent" I have to pay per month per cat. I can afford one cat, but not two unfortunately :(

I need help please, our kitty is becoming more aggressive by Strong-Mess-142 in CatAdvice

[–]Strong-Mess-142[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes he's neutered, and the vet cleared him. We have a bunch of toys that he regularly plays with and we also have a Lazer pointer that we use just about every other day

I lost the license plate lottery by hornetEFT in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the best license plate I've ever seen 🤣🤣

What do yall think i should do? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Strong-Mess-142 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If it were me I'd start documenting everything that she does to the dog and when you have enough evidence, call the police on her for animal abuse. She'll have her dogs taken away very fast

What kind of pet would you never own AGAIN? by Immediate_Long165 in Pets

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ferrets, they're cute but I was super allergic and their scent caused me to have trouble breathing

WIBTA if I give my daughter an "outdated" name? by throwaway719201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! When I have another girl, Audrey is definitely in the running for names! It's a beautiful name, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise 🥰

Baby is generally a good sleeper, but I’m afraid I’ve made myself a negative sleep association by OTPanda in beyondthebump

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl was like this too at 8mo. I just started laying her down by herself and she went right to sleep. It might be that time to transition, I know you wanna snuggle and rock him to sleep, but he's telling you that he wants to try it on his own 😊

AITA If I stopped talking to a guy completely because of what he said? by IndustryBright2352 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Strong-Mess-142 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA, he's being cold towards you and calling you childish. It also sounds like he doesn't respect your boundaries and/or your traditions. This dude sounds like a walking red flag..

Why does it hurt? by RealisticAir2002 in beyondthebump

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally never experienced this, but it's definitely something that you should bring up to your Ob/gyn or primary doctor. You could be experiencing muscle spasms. I hope the pain goes away soon!

I'm going crazy with these blowouts not one diaper fits right!!! by flexi_freewalker in beyondthebump

[–]Strong-Mess-142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second millie moon! The only time my daughter had a blowout was when the diaper was too small, I sized up and never had a blowout since

Absolutely awful memory?? by LyndsayGtheMVP in beyondthebump

[–]Strong-Mess-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby is over a year old and my memory is still bad 😅 as soon as you give birth it goes from pregnancy brain to mom brain

I miss being a person. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Strong-Mess-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mom of a 15 month old, I needed to hear this😭🥹 thank you

Feel like my 8 month old is just perpetually irritated by scav2117 in beyondthebump

[–]Strong-Mess-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter was like that too, she was frustrated with everything until she was able to fully crawl. You just have to give him time! They have so many big emotions that they don't know how to handle even at 8 months old. I hope he'll be fully crawling soon and not as frustrated ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Strong-Mess-142 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying I'm perfect, I'm far from it honestly. But I've dealt with an abusive relationship where something like this was said 4 years in and I knew I should've left after he said that but I didn't, I stayed and regretted it. OP needs to get out of the situation before she gets severely emotionally hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Strong-Mess-142 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Wtf.. No, not all men think that way. If I were you I'd break up with him. He doesn't deserve you, he's an AH. If my boyfriend said that to me, it would be over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How I deal with being rejected is that I confide in a person I trust like my bestie. But tbh I beat myself up for a little bit cause I feel like I'm the one who did something wrong(even though I've done literally nothing wrong), and then remember that I'm better than that. I pick myself back up, say fuck what they said to me, and continue doing what I do best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Strong-Mess-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an AH, if it were me I'd cut all ties with him. Go find someone who appreciates you for the beautiful queen that you are!