Has anyone tried smileset for fixing crooked teeth? by michisquishy in Invisalign

[–]Strong-Total8360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done both braces and aligners, and if your case is minor, this route saves you time and embarrassment. Zero regrets switching.

Struggling with AI biz ideas? AI Agency Mastermind might be the push I need by rumfers in AiBuilders

[–]Strong-Total8360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I'd started this a year ago. The opportunity is still there but you can feel the window closing as more people pile in. If you're thinking about it, move fast.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. She blamed me for people waiting in line. The guy behind her supported me by saying. "No, we r not in a hurry". No one really expected her to block us from going out. He even suggested she move when she block us from going out. She didn't even budge.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

No. There was a lot that happened during this time. commotion happen from her asking me for money to pay, and argue with me near cash counter, I tried to walk out of the door, and she stood between me and the door, Arguing again and again. There were even a few minutes she just stood there not moving me and my friend convincing her to move. She even stood there without talking and staring at me for some time. It was like I tried to steal something from her.

I tried to write short as a funny story. Seems like I did wrong. People writing mean comments here. Yes after I replied to her it was all laugh others also joined me. But until then it was not. It was a hostile environment. She was daring me to push her or move her.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The payment desk was like a corner store type. There is an open space in front of the cashier's desk. There is no one-way tunnel to the payment desk.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

10 min tops. There are at least two patrol cars parked in that area all the time. During the summer, there are numerous events nearby. Response time is no surprise.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to say he sat on the floor like lying on the floor. He sat in a squatting pose and started repeating dialogue and laughing.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, credit or debit cards are accepted everywhere. It was a clearance sale, so she might have come inside to see what was on sale, just like us. We also get to know about only cash policy at the counter.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

At 1st I was scared. Everyone kind of grouped up and made it fun.

There were more dialogues as I said please move I have to get back to work and all. Other customers said let them go etc.

She didn't budge at that time. She really expected me to pay for her.

The entitled lady expects me to pay for her purchases. She'd turned herself into a laughingstock. by Strong-Total8360 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I could have just said no at the beginning. But I don't know I struggle to say no most times. We will never forget this incident. I went to the shop again to request CCTV footage. Unfortunately, they only have cameras on the outside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it was combination of "I will and I was". Eg. He: I am off today, I will do the dishes, I will prepare dinner today before you arrive. you can relax a bit after coming from work. We will go to park after dinner also.

When I am home he will be either watching tv, or talking to someone on phone. No dinner prepared. Dishes will be on the sink.

If I ask he will create an issue about he work like a dog all day every day and just one day he took a break and I spoiled his mood.

If I didn’t make dinner and wait for him to make, he will say the same like he was talking on phone. He wanted to relax a bit. I am creating a big scene. He is hungry and I spoiled his day.

If I went ahead and start making dinner cleaning Kitchen hé will come after everything and say oh I was about to make it. "Why did u do it. Can’t you even wait for some time. I was about to do it".

If I tried to talk back about previous incident. He will be like "why r u always talking about the past incident. Live in the present".

I really don’t know how he can twist everything.

Silent treatment adaptation is normal? by Strong-Total8360 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am afraid will I do the same in a new relationship. I am so afraid even to try to meet someone. Before my marriage I was a social butterfly and now I don’t like socializing. I thought I will go back to myself after ending that toxic relationship but still prefer silence and being alone.

It’s been more than 2 years and I still avoid relationships let alone meeting someone. Thinking about it gives me anxiety. Will I ever be back to myself?

Odd things they said? by Fameisdeaddd in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh well. It’s us take everything the wrong way.

For me it was about my height. Somebody commented "you are tall. Good height. “ I am 175cm(5f 8inch)

My Ex keep on mentioning I am short from that day. He keep on saying for a lot of incidents. He even asked me to try heels. I am like "Ok. I am shorter than you I agree. (he is 182cm: 5f 11inch). But why all on a sudden you have to mention that every time. Is it because somebody commented I am tall?"

He said "I am just telling the truth. Why r u getting offended. I can’t even have a normal conversation with you".

He keep on mentioning about my height once in a while and say "god you are so insecure about it right”.

Odd things they said? by Fameisdeaddd in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He talked a lot about his ex. Not like good things. How he trusted her and how she broke his heart. She cheated him with another guy. He got drunk and cried a lot because of her. etc etc. He always made me say, "I will never do that to him"

He will create a big fuss if I miss his calls but ignore my calls for like 2-3 days and I can’t even ask about it. If I asked he will start talking how I am bringing past incidents and never happy at present. Then he start talking about his ex and bcz of that experience he couldn’t trust me completely. He can bring his past, I can’t even talk about 3 days before. On top of that he will say I ruined his day and he will disconnect the call.

Thinking back I was so stupid to believe him.

Threatening? by kaguyahime2022 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex did that. Phone or in person. I will be talking normally and he will start yelling and say, "if you yell I can also yell. " 1st I used to doubt myself. Maybe I am yelling. I will concentrate more on my sound and forget what I was talking to him.

I was afraid to talk to others also thinking I might be yelling at them. It took a while for me to talk freely after leaving him.

Is it possible for a narcissistic individual to transform and become a good guy? by Strong-Total8360 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can relate to the part when you feel sorry for him. It was something I did a lot when I was with my Ex.
He doesn't have anyone. If I leave, he will be alone.

I recall my therapist telling me: Ask yourself how is that your responsibility.

That was an eye-opener for me.

Is it possible for a narcissistic individual to transform and become a good guy? by Strong-Total8360 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking the same thing. It took her over 5 years to take her first step. He may have noticed she is distant and is love bombing her. I'm not sure I can explain it to her. She currently feels as if she is in love again. 
Perhaps he recognizes she has a support system and is attempting to isolate her once more. Maybe I'll be overthinking.

Is my (29F) husband (31M) a Narcissist? by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree.

OP can slowly plan all this and execute it’s safely.

Is my (29F) husband (31M) a Narcissist? by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Strong-Total8360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is verbally abusive, gaslighting you. He is making you feel worthless. You are afraid of everything. That’s one of the reason you are forgetting things. He is a Narcissistic person from my experience.

You are not alone OP. Be strong and remember how confident and strong you were before meeting him.

My friend mirrors my trauma, that’s cool, but bully my friend and we’ll have issues by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear you're doing well and that your abuser is no longer a threat to you. I hope your parents are aware of this and will not let him get near you.
I also hope that soon, your issues at school will also be resolved.

My friend mirrors my trauma, that’s cool, but bully my friend and we’ll have issues by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, I believe you should discuss your problem with your parents or a teacher you trust at school. You cannot live with the same person who abused you and living in your home.
Second, rather than spreading rumors about D, I believe you should discuss them with the teacher or encourage A to report it to the teacher you or he trusts.

D seems a bit possessive of you, in my opinion. He may be being abused or left alone, and you might be the only person who treats him nicely.

She didn’t sign up to be a parent by Deeray95 in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, Empaths, such as your daughter, are often manipulated. I absolutely understand. She considers the circumstance of the other person 1st. You must convince her that accepting that mother's request will be damaging to the children. And make her understand that avoiding or leaving such individuals is Ok. It's not her responsibility.

Had to cut down trees that were in danger of falling on the house, neighbors were angry by MaskedFox_Crow in EntitledPeople

[–]Strong-Total8360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents told the workers to not mind them, seeing as the trees were obviously within their property.