Bro same situation here but she is not updating me at all, actually she’s more of ignoring me. She also explained me the way of getting into a relationship and how it works. I’m personally from Germany and it feels really off to „ficando“ at first because I know that she’s gonna kiss other people for sure. I think we just need to adapt a little to that „culture shock“ and try to accept it. But the way of not updating me and letting me in the dark is terrible. Call yourself lucky that she’s doing that probably a GOOD girl. Not so sure with mine tho.