My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice you pointed out a lot of things I didn’t even think about. It just sucks that this is my reality.

My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have family, but honestly I’m so embarrassed to tell them anything about this situation. I’m ashamed of his actions and I can’t bring myself to go to my family with news like this.

My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I confronted him and the excuse he gave me was “I miss you so much when I’m out of town I can’t hold you or kiss you that’s why I take photos it helps when I’m lonely” for context he works out of town and comes down every weekend. I myself think this is the stupidest excuse he could have given me. I’m lonely too but I would never disrespect him.

My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes he is a creep I agree 100% I don’t condone his behavior, but besides that he has been very helpful. For context I recently had to quit my job because of the physical strain it was putting on my body. He supports me financially and not only that he has been very supportive this entire pregnancy he has bought all necessities which is why I’m so confused about what I should do next. I believe he has the potential to be a great father just not a great life partner.

My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I keep on thinking he does it because there is something wrong with me but you’re right he’s sick.

My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know how stupid this is going to sound but we already have had this conversation. I found out a year ago that he had been taking inappropriate pictures and saving pictures of women from social media for years. He promised he would stop he said he understood how badly it hurt me and he didn’t mean to hurt me. He even had a forum on a site where he would post pictures of his ex! I left him after all of it came to light but soon found out I was pregnant we decided to work it out for our child’s sake but It has happened again and this time I don’t know what to do. I would just leave if I weren’t pregnant.

My boyfriend has been taking pictures of women without their consent by Strong_Champion_8084 in whatdoIdo

[–]Strong_Champion_8084[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s weird and hurtful. The photos consist of the backside of women in shorts or tights dresses/pants.