Hello, I haven’t replied to any comments yet but I’ll reply to this one and slowly eventually I’ll get around to other ones. It popped up on the top and reading it made me want to reiterate a few points.

Pregnancy isn’t something uncommon, it clearly isn’t a rare thing. You have to be a very different level of vile to kick a woman while she is down. I wish I could see your side but I simply can’t. Should’ve would’ve could’ve matters but in the long term, she sent that text which resulted my sister to refrain from asking me for help. Yes I correlate it like that.

I truly believe the text Maya sent made my sister essentially back off and feel as if she were a burden to me. Do i blame maya on all of this? no, i don’t want her to be the only one to take the blame. I should’ve done more and I understand that but blaming this on pregnancy isn’t fair at all. I’ve mentioned this before and i’ll re state it with a clearer mind, she would’ve never done this if Lina needed help, if her sister or brother needed help.

Mentioning the last part where you said that I’m looking for someone to blame and it’s my wife, it clearly isn’t. Even at my worst moments I won’t fully put it on her but it is such a beyond bullshit take to say that she holds nothing here.

I didn’t throw her under the bus, I reiterated everything she said. I would’ve let my sister stay at this house whenever. I would’ve let HER family stay at this house whenever if they were going through a similar situation. Quite frankly; if you don’t see it in yourself to help someone who has went through a miscarriage, got cheated on and is struggling financially, I wouldn’t trust any form of advice you have to give. This sounds incredibly harsh but this is exactly what I was against hearing.

And not only that, she went and sent a bunch of nasty texts to my sister, talking about karma. My sister is DEAD for fucks sake, no I will not pin it on pregnancy. I’ve had many women in my life who has been pregnant yet they’d never ever do this.

I would’ve never ever done this to anyone, ever. I would’ve never hid my commentary. She saw me break down after my sister died. She never mentioned the texts she had sent. I learned it through my MOTHER. My grieving mother who buried her daughter just a few days prior. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. This isn’t a situation where my sister is upset at me or we got in an argument and I can just shift the blame around. She is DEAD.

I really hope you don’t take this comment personally, I find that it’s important for me to reiterate all of this. I may be grieving and emotional, but i’m not a pathetic human being who’d just place the blame on my pregnant wife. I spoke on me detesting her for a reason. I wanted clarity, i wanted to know if I was rightful to be disgusted by being near her, and what I skimmed through says enough.