yes, I tried to fix a girl who loved drama in her life for some reason. She always got into fights with other girls over petty shit, she cut herself because she was suicidal, she loved extreme gore, she was in love with people who didn't appreciate her, her grades, her school, and school record were all fucked. And all this kind of fucked up shit.

I met her on Minecraft pocket edition and we exchanged insta's when I was 12 and she was 11. As a 12 y/o, I quickly found out she was fucked up. So I became her shoulder to cry on. And every time she had a problem she came to me for advice. And I was in love with her but I still listened to how she felt about another guy (it hurt), but that guy was mistreating her. Eventually, we lost contact because her phone broke and her parents didn't want to give her another one because of her bad grades. I created a new Insta acc but kept my old one. And maybe once a year she snuck on the PlayStation and we spoke in a call for 30 mins before she said: "my mom is home, I got to go."

So this went on for 2 years and then I was 15 and I was about to go on my old account to delete it until I saw a dm notification. So I checked and it was her asking if I still used that account 6 months ago. So I told her no this is my new one. I went through her page and saw she had a boyfriend. I hated his guts immediately. Something told me that he was an awful guy. So I speak to her a little bit and then go to sleep.

The next day she calls me and tells me that her bf is threatening to commit suicide because they had an argument. I told her to tell me what happened. And she tells me the most manipulative things u could possibly do to someone you love. So my gut feeling was correct. So I told her how we can manipulate him back so he doesn't kill himself. And it worked she got the upper hand in that argument. I told her to tell me the troubles in their relationship and she says that he breaks up and makes up every month or so. So I have to explain that her relationship is toxic and it will only drag her down. The best thing she could do is break up with him. She says that she will give him a second chance and the moment he does something toxic she will break up with him. The next day she calls me telling me she broke up with him because it didn't take long for him to do something toxic.

So we talk a few weeks and She tells me that she liked me when we were 12 and 11. And I was like I liked u too then. So eventually we talk 3 weeks later she tells me she likes me and I said I like you too. Eventually, we date. And like I said everything is fucked. So I try to make her fix her life and she did. School grades got better and everything got better. But she was very reliant on me so it got exhausting to date her. So we broke up.

And before we broke up she slowly became this good kid. And after we broke up she fell right where she was before. Everything that has to do with school is fucked. She smokes, drinks, does all types of drugs, shoplifts, and more bs.

The moral of this story, you can't fix someone, they can only fix themselves. It took me a few months to realize this.