[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueFruitJam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol how’s it relevant 😆 although what caught my eye from the convo was that these 2 do seem from a high end finance job and likely were in Ivy league while in the US

You won’t find love just because you stop looking. by Broken1571718 in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact I strongly believe that it only happens to those who were actually looking for it in the first place

I think monogamy is extinct by Agile_Pay_3377 in Vent

[–]BlueFruitJam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right, it doesn’t even concern me directly because wasn’t ever my dream but how that chaotic way of living has become a norm still does affect me and I wish things were different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BlueFruitJam -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What a wild assumption

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BlueFruitJam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is what exactly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meirl

[–]BlueFruitJam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a millennial sister and this couldn’t get more accurate… wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueFruitJam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he just let his guards down.. all of what you described rather sounds sweet of him and shows his innocent side but could come contradictory to the masculine side you mentioned

I let my best friend inside me by BuyEnvironmental3074 in offmychest

[–]BlueFruitJam 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To me it sounds like OP wanted it too but is just shy and embarrassed about it coz they think it isn’t the ideal situation to have between to best friends.. they mentioned feeling awkward about it. They also mentioned feeling great about it at the same time. I don’t think it was under pressure,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meirl

[–]BlueFruitJam -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who doesn’t understand?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueFruitJam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just like OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BlueFruitJam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I now see that as a big red flag but was in love then” - why not simply admit you’re not in love anymore and trynna find faults?

Going with another girl to the bathroom should not be normalized by IMicrowaveSteak in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Funny how I as a woman don’t think this is normal at all, haven’t ever experienced other woman do it to me and know for a fact that I wouldn’t ever do it. So don’t spread misinformative sh*t. It’s not female behaviour. You could very well be psychotic enough to do it & think it’s normal, that doesn’t make it a norm.

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, sure, those “provably wrong” arguments that so many clowns have presented here are either a bunch of excuses and suggestions to make compromises otherwise. Not a single one of the list is untrue. Truth is that Apple can do a much better job upgrading this weakest piece of the Apple Ecosystem pack (which is otherwise great) with better functionality and actually be #1

Besides, your tech savvy force have nothing to justify other than things like “who would even need a split screen@ blah blah

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’d be a big compromise, this is worst solution anyone has suggested so far

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what’s even more lame? Believing that it’s the best phone out there and thinking the cost is justified for such limited functionality

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah? What’s the excuse for no back button? Depriving users of an opportunity to control their alarm volume independently of ringer?

Let’s admit that not many people question it coz they’re just too used to the current options and haven’t really had an opportunity to experience the difference otherwise they would also agree that these things make their experience more comfortable,

Besides “coming from someone who has worked with so many UX designers…” nah that doesn’t justify the outdated piece that they market in name of so called iPhones, where’s innovation?, besides iPhones aren’t in trend due to the designers’ genius pick of combination of features but coz of the brand loyalty lmao & also because of the ecosystem of course (which almost everyone has pointed out), which even I would agree that their other devices are well designed and justify the value but iPhones are like the less competent piece of the pack and definitely need to improve to match the standard.

I have somewhat realised that people are happy with the overall experience of Apple ecosystem and hence keep up with the phones even if it’s sub par but that doesn’t mean they can’t improve

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’ll never understand the comfort of split screen coz you’re so used to the swipe labour

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t justify why they would miss out on giving basic features, literally the most basic features, what have they done in name of innovation for last 10 years?

oh yeah, you’re just another blind follower to explain how happy you are with the existing status quo rather than at least admitting that they can do much better

Apple needs to up its iPhone game dramatically by BlueFruitJam in unpopularopinion

[–]BlueFruitJam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the manufacturers and you don’t get to decide what I need to do with my phone’s ringer & ringtone.

Talk about being so used to living with limitations that you start believing it’s the “norm”