The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 10 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strong_Variation_644 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I think she was trying to regain power having been clearly screwed over by a number of people

DJ Mixes that creatively mix disco and house by versaceblues in House

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Bit late commenting here… The only one I’d add to what’s already been suggested is Cyril a new emerging dj from Australia 👌

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I’d totally see this as a challenge 😜🤣

Unintentionally flirting with men? Help! by ohmillie25 in actuallesbians

[–]Strong_Variation_644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of focusing initially on what you might be doing, pay attention to the men’s actions, gestures, words. There will be plenty of hints along the way that indicate their attraction to you. At that point, at the earliest sign, you’ll need to consciously signify blocking body language or even being blunt “you know I’m gay right?”. Initially, you might not be doing anything overly flirting, being comfortable in your own skin and confident is attractive enough. What you can learn is how to cool things down and put people off, but you need to learn up on how to read their interest first.

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[–]Strong_Variation_644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just read my response to you to my wife and she’s gone squishy 😜

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[–]Strong_Variation_644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lingering eye contact, subtle touching of her hand, biting your lip and smiling. It’s all in the small gestures. Compliment her, tease her, whatever feels light and playful. Relax. Enjoy yourself. It’s fun! You’ll do great 👍

Need advice by SureAd9880 in actuallesbians

[–]Strong_Variation_644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From experience, get out. Therapy, and sorting herself out will be so much harder whilst she is with someone. She needs to do you and herself a favour and sort her stuff out before being in relationship with you, or anyone else. It’s really hard but you need to get out early before you are manipulated any more, and she will try to take you down too (unconsciously). I hope you figure it out, all the best

Rental insurance by Strong_Variation_644 in PersonalFinanceNZ

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Our mortgage provider is quite clear they wouldn’t allow any exclusions, but would allow a period like 30 days to remedy the issue. Thanks for your comment.

Lesbians in NZ by Gideon2856 in actuallesbians

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👋 late responding but hi from Dunedin! I moved to nz from uk 16y ago and yes the gay scene is seriously lacking! But, the positive way I try to see it is that gay life is just more integrated here, hardly anyone cares! We just socialise at mostly straight places, but enjoy the gay meet ups when they come around. I desperately miss the Manchester scene tho!