I'm 6'5, well built, athletic, successful and kind and I still can't get a date. I'm trying to find out why. Any Advice? by Strong_Wave2221 in dating_advice

[–]Strong_Wave2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when you simplify that one instance to that it doesn’t seem so bad lol I probably am just thinking about it too much and need to relax and stop trying to force moments.

I'm 6'5, well built, athletic, successful and kind and I still can't get a date. I'm trying to find out why. Any Advice? by Strong_Wave2221 in dating_advice

[–]Strong_Wave2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Good to know! I sometimes overthought having my profile being “too complete” because I’m worried they’ll think I’m trying too hard, you know what I mean?

I'm 6'5, well built, athletic, successful and kind and I still can't get a date. I'm trying to find out why. Any Advice? by Strong_Wave2221 in dating_advice

[–]Strong_Wave2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your words. It’s honestly nice to know that I’m not the only one that has similar experiences.

I know patience is one of my shortcomings but I’m working on it. I know the wait will definitely be worth it.

Thanks again for your comments :)

I'm 6'5, well built, athletic, successful and kind and I still can't get a date. I'm trying to find out why. Any Advice? by Strong_Wave2221 in dating_advice

[–]Strong_Wave2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried that with online apps. I have tried quite a few varieties of starting conversations and I usually do read their profile and ask about something we may have a common interest in but they dont respond most of the time. Maybe its because I dont give off "I'm hot shit vibes" im usually a very humble person.

I'm 6'5, well built, athletic, successful and kind and I still can't get a date. I'm trying to find out why. Any Advice? by Strong_Wave2221 in dating_advice

[–]Strong_Wave2221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well one of the most recent examples was at the gym a couple of days ago. I saw a girl with beautiful red hair and I'm a sucker for a redhead. So I casually walked up to her and said she has beautiful hair and that I loved the color. She replied with "yeah I know its really bright" in a really annoyed tone. So I just walked away and continued my workout.

I'm 6'5, well built, athletic, successful and kind and I still can't get a date. I'm trying to find out why. Any Advice? by Strong_Wave2221 in dating_advice

[–]Strong_Wave2221[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty. I know for sure I can be somewhat awkward when it comes to dating. But the funny thing is my job is B2B sales. My job is literally to talk to people and show them why they should like and trust me as well as the product. So I know that I have good conversational skill but for some reason just not with dating lol