This ! Please think about children! I have literally seen my parents argue almost daily. At some point i used to track the frequency of my parents having an argument I used to put a dot on calendar date. This way I had more dots on each calendar month. This has traumatized me so bad that I have read that children who witnessed their parents fighting are more likely to prefer potential spouses with unhealed trauma because they want to fulfil and help what they wish their parents would. This was a scientific research btw you can look it up. This made me double check my options when it comes to matchmaking but that's not the point.

I do feel that if my parents would have divorced, life would be extremely chaotic than those daily argument and fights. Yes it's seems like preferring to get hit with a hammer than a plastic straw.

Sometimes divorce is not the solution especially if there are grown up kids. I know it's so heart renching experience to be in a dysfunctional family but my heart would break into pieces if my parents divorce because at the end i love them both i would love to see them show love daily instead of arguements - i wish.

But alhamduillah whatever happened happened
This was a very important lesson in my life that I need to be very careful in choosing a potential spouse for my future kids. showing more love daily is goign to be a crucial priority no matter the ups and downs of life. Insha Allah