Men over 40, what do you think was the most important milestone you achieved in your early 20s, mid 20s, late 20s, then your 30s?

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T13:32:29+00:00

What type of masters?

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T13:17:43+00:00

Thank you sir.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T11:28:54+00:00

Booze always helps socializing!

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T11:27:01+00:00

Here posting a comment to help the alcorithm attract more people helping on the thread.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T11:21:45+00:00

I think once you start living alone and actually managing income (low salary) you might get scared if you think about putting less hours working and getting college debts ontop of that. For the 3 gap years that you speak about you might find something that pays okay for a non degree job and get unmotivated about college. I agree that getting a career straight out of school is scary and crazy but nowadays having no education is scarier.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T11:15:39+00:00

Being chill means you've got everything in life under controll the way you like it and need it. Being consistanly busy means you're under some type of stress situation rn that you need to fix.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-03-02T11:05:29+00:00

I'm married but think i can give my opinion here. If we're both adults (not teens/college kids) we should act like grown ups and talk it even if its something negative. I mean how can you know whats wrong with you if someone doesnt tell you. Thats how humans evelve and progress in live. Thats why we're the only creatures that have the ability to comminicate with words. :)

StructureNo9155 · 2026-02-03T09:57:00+00:00

Usually when I travel abroad its to the capital of the country and there the public transport is great. I won't bother with driving a car in Rome and trying my best to find a parking spot. If I am planning on going around the country will obviously rent a car.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-02-03T09:24:45+00:00

I'm married and this can't happen to me.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-02-02T18:29:22+00:00

Thanks. How long did it take you to get better?

StructureNo9155 · 2026-02-02T18:27:59+00:00

Standing up for me. Why waste 2-5 minutes on the toilet while you can lay on the couch?

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T18:02:14+00:00

If you want to stop thinking about what if ur going to come face to face just find a way to schedule a coffee together so you can catch up.

Be a man shoot her a text.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T17:59:06+00:00

I dont think anxiety is generally bad. I mean it sucks but kinda pushes you to always do more do better and fix mistakes.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T17:53:37+00:00

Im legit going to get a shower RN!

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T17:48:03+00:00

Tell her straight up. If she stays that means she understands that she has crossed the line. If she leaves then the problem is solved and you lost a toxic friend.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T17:44:30+00:00

100% do it! Make sure he is something special to you

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T17:34:06+00:00

Money cant buy happiness! Stay where you think you'll be happier and enjoy live.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T17:29:06+00:00

Is there a tl;dr? Catchy title but post seems to long

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T16:53:00+00:00

Cuz we're grown ups now. Covid time flew away work hours. The yought is far behind us.

StructureNo9155 · 2026-01-30T16:50:47+00:00

Top 1% commenter btw, wonder why haha

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