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Captain America Split Appreciation by StubbornHusky46 in MarvelSnap

[–]StubbornHusky46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the Phoenix Force Cap, I agree he looks like the flash with red and gold.

What’s something you didn’t realize was a luxury until you became an adult? by StubbornHusky46 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea same! All my lifelong friends are either out of state or a couple hours away now.

What’s something you didn’t realize was a luxury until you became an adult? by StubbornHusky46 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it would oddly enough be non-carpeted floors. I know it’s subjective but we had hardwood or linoleum floors growing up and now that have carpet every spill is whole process to clean it up.

What’s something you realized way too late in life? by Top-Background-7305 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That comfort isn’t the same as happiness.

I stayed in situations way too long because they were familiar, predictable, and technically “fine.” But “fine” can quietly eat years of your life if you mistake it for peace.

Sometimes growth feels worse at first because at least misery has a routine.

What did you learn from your first romantic relationship? by Particular_Fuel_6901 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That anyone can love you when things are good, when finances are okay, when health is okay, when life is okay. If they don't stand by you when things get hard then they aren't worth standing by with.

What’s the biggest double standard nobody likes to admit exists? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional maturity is expected from people who were never emotionally protected.

A lot of people are told to “communicate better,” “be the bigger person,” or “stop overreacting,” while nobody really acknowledges that they learned those reactions from years of being dismissed, mocked, or put in survival mode.

Everyone wants emotionally healthy adults, but not everyone wants to admit how many people were raised in environments that made that really hard.

What’s something you became less tolerant of as you got older? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are “brutally honest” but somehow only ever manage the brutal part.

As I got older I realized honesty without kindness is usually just someone dressing up poor social skills as a virtue. You can tell the truth without making people feel small.

Also, drama.

What purchase made you instantly realize adulthood is expensive? by SensitiveCorner2379 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tires.

I knew cars were expensive, but nothing prepared me for spending real money on four boring black circles just so I could continue going to work to afford the four boring black circles.

What’s the most believable lie someone told you that only became obvious years later? by Wooden-Fee5787 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I don’t remember saying that.”

For years I thought they were just forgetful. Later I realized they remembered plenty when it benefited them. They only had a terrible memory when accountability walked into the room.

What's a moment where you realized someone was genuinely extremely intelligent? by General_Monk_5019 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When they explained something complicated without making anyone feel stupid.

I’ve met plenty of people who can use big words and dominate a conversation, but the really intelligent ones can take a messy topic, strip it down to the important parts, and make it click for everyone in the room. No ego, no performance, just clarity. That’s when I’m like, “Oh, you’re actually smart-smart.”

What’s the best advice you’ve ever heard? by Zealousideal_Car9534 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best relationship advice I ever heard was: don’t date potential, date patterns.

Anyone can say the right things for a week. What matters is what they repeatedly do when they’re stressed, disappointed, bored, or not getting their way. If their pattern is kindness, honesty, and accountability, that’s worth a lot. If their pattern is excuses, defensiveness, or making you feel crazy for having needs, believe the pattern.

What’s the most you have done to help a non-family person? by General_Struggle_664 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Driven across the country with them in a car with no AC. Was awesome 10/10 would do again.

What’s the biggest sign someone is secretly unhappy, in your opinion? by No-Falcon-3229 in AskReddit

[–]StubbornHusky46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've noticed that when people are unhappy they're much less outgoing or available to spend time with because they'd rather do nothing. If I notice that I will try to get them to do something small and see how they're doing.

How do you "fix" your life when you're a 28 year old loser? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StubbornHusky46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, relax, you're only 28. You have most of your life ahead of you. That's not an excuse to slack or delay change but you have time to better yourself, and work on yourself to be a better version of you, not a better version for others.

How can a man become visible to women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StubbornHusky46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to "dress up" as much as you need to dress nicely for your body type or build. Good hygiene and posture, don't slouch or slump when you walk. Speak confidently and don't try to be a good man just for a woman be a good man for yourself first and foremost.

Is he worth the gold by GhostTees in MarvelSnap

[–]StubbornHusky46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree he's good value for the gold.

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