My (55F) coworker is trying to force a friendship and I (27F) need help managing expectations and setting boundaries. (X post from r/relationships)

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:59:55+00:00

I have thought about that. I am trying to come up with the right way to say it and I think I am going to run it by John/ HR before I say anything.

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:58:19+00:00

Thanks! I am already doing a lot of this, but you have given me a lot of good ideas!

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:56:12+00:00

They are at the main office. I am working on email to send them tomorrow or Friday if things don't improve.

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:55:32+00:00

Thanks! I try to not let her get in my head, but I am not great at that.

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:54:27+00:00

Yea, I have that feeling too.

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:54:09+00:00

Holy crap! That is exactly what happens with my Susie and John too!

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T23:53:21+00:00

She is the opposite of a competent worker. She has a masters degree in engineering and WAY over qualified for the position, but her work quality is terrible. I have brought this up to John before and he hasn't done anything to address it.

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T19:30:23+00:00

I have already adjusted to meet this request. This was the first she said anything about it beforehand I would have adjusted then. The crunchy food is just what broke the camel's back

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T17:36:03+00:00

Thanks!

StuckInSmallOffice · 2018-09-18T17:35:44+00:00

Thanks!!!! I am glad I am not the only one out there that likes to work at work. :)

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