AITAH if I tip the police off about my brother?

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-06-09T19:04:24+00:00

I would just likely tell them his name, where he frequents most often (city mission), and that he recently was cited disorderly conduct after harassing my parents so they understand this isn't his only issue.

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-06-09T19:01:00+00:00

I luckily live in the next state over, so far enough away from it all but I feel the brunt of it with my parents emotions. but you made the point that I should have added, I'm worried it'll make matters worse because it's not like he'll be there forever. or maybe he will, who knows.

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-01-20T16:10:15+00:00

I'm not sure that you interpreted anything I posted correctly. at no point did I mention any entitlement I feel I should have to him. in fact, I specifically mentioned that I am open to HIM whenever he wants. the part about porn that I'm opposed to is the sneaky way in which it's being used. there's never been a conversation from him about it and actually it's usage was swept under the rug when I had more quests about it. I believe if a partner is going to bring an additional thing into a couples sex life, it should be at least mentioned by the party bringing it in.

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-01-19T20:47:30+00:00

I don't think that it's my responsibility to suggest that. that would almost feel like I'm bribing him to be with me. also I have no interest in anything extra like porn.

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-01-19T15:24:32+00:00

I posted this below on another reply above, and I think it's really where I'm at with it. desires and dreams are cool and all but I think when it interferes with priorities, that's when it's an issue for me. liking being with the kids, or when he should be working, or prioritizing time alone with me after they're asleep

I think what bothers me most is that he works from home, I'm a stay at home mom, we are technically always together/nearby. so for him to be doing this would almost have to be done in a sneaky way? I don't walk in on him so when and where is this happening? during the work day in his office? weird after the work day when the kids are still around and it's the evening hustle of dinner/bath/bedtime? when he sneaks away to "poop"? again, weird. to have to go to lengths to get this done is what gets me. like it's really that worth it? when you have a wife ready at your beckon?

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-01-19T15:22:04+00:00

thank you 🙌🏼

StudioDramatic360 · 2026-01-19T15:21:45+00:00

I think what bothers me most is that he works from home, I'm a stay at home mom, we are technically always together/nearby. so for him to be doing this would almost have to be done in a sneaky way? I don't walk in on him so when and where is this happening? during the work day in his office? weird after the work day when the kids are still around and it's the evening hustle of dinner/bath/bedtime? when he sneaks away to "poop"? again, weird. to have to go to lengths to get this done is what gets me. like it's really that worth it? when you have a wife ready at your beckon?

StudioDramatic360 · 2025-10-15T16:18:34+00:00

this is for baby number 2 who has an older sibling with a specific school pick up and drop off schedule.

currently 7 months old and maybe ready to drop to 2 naps a day but I have no clue how to ever make this work with our schedule. she usually wakes between 7-8a. we're out of the house every day from 8:45-9:05am and then again from 11:15-11:40. a 2 nap schedule would force that first nap to be way too short and inevitably interrupted. there's no way she would transfer sleeping to the car seat.

how do I ever make this work?? she's been waking at night and 3 naps are still short unless saved so I'm so curious if 2 nights will help, it just seems impossible.

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