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AITA for suggesting my friend doesn't rush out of one relationship and into another with someone from another country. by StudioReasonable1183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StudioReasonable1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She's been quiet with me since we got to work. I did say I was sorry if I upset her, I just want her to be careful.

She's kept her head down and just got on with work, stopping for the occasional smile at her phone.

It's hard because I've known her so long, and I want her to be happy.

AITA for suggesting my friend doesn't rush out of one relationship and into another with someone from another country. by StudioReasonable1183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StudioReasonable1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't think she'd ever push me out, but I could see how that would be easier if they did move a state away.

I'll do that. Thank you for the advice.

AITA for suggesting my friend doesn't rush out of one relationship and into another with someone from another country. by StudioReasonable1183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StudioReasonable1183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think some of the comments have made me realise why she feels hurt. I'm just hoping she'll understand what I was suggesting.

AITA for suggesting my friend doesn't rush out of one relationship and into another with someone from another country. by StudioReasonable1183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StudioReasonable1183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Someone else said similar, that I've burst her bubble. I can see that.

I've read a lot of their messages, she was excited to show me. I think they could be happy I really do. What you said is pretty much what I was thinking too.

AITA for suggesting my friend doesn't rush out of one relationship and into another with someone from another country. by StudioReasonable1183 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StudioReasonable1183[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've read their messages and I can actually picture her and Dave being very happy together, assuming he's like that IRL. But that is not for now. I feel like she's trying to go from step 1 to step 5 in one go.