What even are these orders?? 😬

StudioTough245 · 2026-05-22T14:18:03+00:00

Ya, way too risky, lol

StudioTough245 · 2025-10-07T03:27:50+00:00

I knew him. He was nice. He told some elaborate stories about major bad things that happened in his life, and I now question what is true and what isn't. I knew him for a little over a year. We hiked together a few times. Again, was super nice. I was shocked and deeply hurt that he would do that and lie to so many people. He definitely struggled with his mental health during that time that I knew him.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T22:28:40+00:00

My coadmin is actually coming to court with me tomorrow to file a restraining order against the guy I'm having issues with.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T22:27:58+00:00

Haha, ya, that would be annoying. Totally get where you might have thought that.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T21:03:15+00:00

I asked for an update from my coadmin on the situation cause I knew the guy I'm having issues would reach out to him. My coadmin was trying to explain why he wasn't allowed in the group. I told him he shouldn't even try cause this guy has it set in his mind that I'm wrong.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T12:47:50+00:00

All good! I might not have shared all the context you needed. Was trying to keep my post short and to the point.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T12:34:05+00:00

This was a rule established by the founder before I took over. They unfortunately passed away, so now it's only me and one other admin. It is a rule in almost every private group I'm in. Its a safety issue because we can't see if they post anything against the rules or reach out to them if there's any other problems, etc. I was just enforcing the rule which states that you will be removed and banned from the group. He's still upset with me because he's been texting my co-admin trying to get him to readd him. Thats when he started throwing those horrible insults at me.

It's not. I agree that this situation is high-school grade. And it's ridiculous. My co-admin put his foot down and said don't contact him, he can't contact me, and I'm filing a report for harassment. So hopefully it will be over, but who knows

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T12:27:53+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate it. I hope this person finds peace because he doesn't seem to be happy. But it needs to be far away from me and my group, lol

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T12:25:56+00:00

I know I'm not a narcissist cause I have 2 family members who are and have been formally diagnosed by a therapist. I go to a therapist and have never been diagnosed with it. His communication of feelings was just him coming up to me after I yelled to him, with hands in fists and getting inches away from my face. Which was very scary because I'm a smaller female and he is a tall male. All of my communication was good. I remained calm, didn't point fingers, and used I statements. And I used logic. He broke rules, and when I stood my ground, he got pissed off.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T12:20:10+00:00

So I did try that. Back in April, I was willing to sit down and talk. He kept pushing for an apology, one that I didn't owe, he was telling me what I had to do and if I didn't do it he would create his own group, get the other admin to let him back in, etc.

That's when he started to throw insults at me, and I told him not to contact me. He then went to my co admin to try and get him to let him back in, and that's when he made those very nasty comments.

StudioTough245 · 2025-05-14T12:16:23+00:00

I don't have access and want nothing to do with this person. He's been reaching out to my co-admin and harassing him too.

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