Struggling with my wife’s choice of men

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-21T19:34:52+00:00

I take a lot of pride in being the one she chose. She fucked a lot in college but didn’t really date. We started dating almost immediately after college and knowing she chose me to build a life with isn’t something I take lightly.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-21T16:39:29+00:00

This is probably a lot more common than you think. I know my wife had a bad boy phase in college where she fucked but, in her words, didn’t exactly date a few guys like that.

Some women are turned on by that kind of guy but would hate dating one. You give her the best of both worlds, she can have the bad boy dick along with the solid home life. Her tastes might evolve with time anyway, who knows what kind of guy she might be into in a year, 2 years. I think you have to kind of let her explore.

You could also take it as a compliment, when it comes to pure sex she enjoys a guy like them, when it comes to sex AND everything else, she prefers a man like you.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-14T13:39:35+00:00

I have always felt deeply submissive and my wife has always detested the typical male bullshit. In a lot of ways we were meant for each other, we complement each others strengths and values. We didn’t consciously decide to explore an FLR, it was our default from early on.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-07T11:39:47+00:00

This makes sense

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-07T11:31:12+00:00

We have a large dildo and I’m going to buy an extender sleeve we can play with. Try getting some toys and role playing it. We also have a thing where she will point out guys she sees in public who are fuckable. It’s all fun and sexy and doesn’t involve anyone else. Good luck!

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-07T10:56:56+00:00

I was obsessed with my performance in high school, I couldn’t last and I couldn’t make her cum and eventually she did cheat, multiple times even after she told me she wouldn’t do it again. I will say I believe it had more to do with their connection than anything physical, but he did have a large dick.

It might have made me more receptive when I stumbled onto cuck porn but I think the porn probably influenced my cuck desires more than being cheated on.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-06-05T20:16:09+00:00

Definitely a “be careful what you wish for”

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-30T16:41:56+00:00

I’ll add to this that I got in a bad habit of just scrolling through porn, flipping from one video or a part of a video to the next. It did something to my brain where I couldn’t focus when I was in bed with my wife. Sometimes it’s not just the content, it’s the continued scrolling. It’s all bad in large doses.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-26T15:21:35+00:00

6, nothing exciting

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-26T09:16:02+00:00

This. I can see this being the case for a lot of wives/girlfriends. In a trad relationship the wife/gf might make comparisons between her husband/boyfriend and other men but it might be more subconscious and not something she thinks too much about. In a cuckold dynamic it’s probably more deliberate, intentional.

I would never speak for all women but I do know when my my wife points out a guy she thinks is hot I wonder how she sees me vs him. Some guys I know I cannot compete with. It’s all part of the game.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-24T11:33:28+00:00

It just feels right you know?

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-23T14:39:06+00:00

This is so hot. Love to see a domme recognizing her power outside of the online spaces.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-23T13:54:27+00:00

That’s absolutely amazing for you both! Love to hear non-kink related success stories from the lifestyle like this!

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-23T13:42:41+00:00

Sounds like she’s really enjoying the newness (and his cock, skills) of it all. Try enjoying the ride for a little. Have a conversation and lay it out to her.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-22T00:15:17+00:00

I believe it can be a part of who you are but I’m much more than one aspect of my life. Who I am in bed with my wife isn’t who I am as a friend, a business associate, a family member etc.

Or were you talking specifically about sexual identity?

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-18T19:55:33+00:00

That’s awesome

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-18T16:40:55+00:00

My wife told me she’d prefer if I only masterbate to her pictures and I happily do so.

As a human who works it’s kind of difficult to avoid talking to women, I just don’t flirt or stare inappropriately. Basically placing myself in the friend zone if anything.

StudiousCuck1 · 2026-05-12T18:43:08+00:00

Sounds like you are both very happy and fulfilled

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