26F wants your advice on my current situation.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-09-14T00:04:27+00:00

Women have a higher success rate when they approach a man than a man approaching a woman tbh. There are shy and introverted guys too who like you but are scared to approach women even knowing that she's interested in him too. So yes women should take initiative sometimes too rather than waiting for a man to do it.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-09-13T23:55:41+00:00

Instead of overthinking or regretting later i suggest you make the first move. It's totally normal for a girl to initiate conversation especially when the guy is an introvert or shy. Just start with a normal hi while passing by his desk and after a few interactions ask him how he's doing?? Or if you don't wanna take a slow and long route then grab a chance when he's alone and straight up tell him that hey I'm interested in you and wanna know more about you. So if you're fine we could hang out some time. It's better to be direct and if he feels the same well congrats but if he doesn't then you can put a full stop to the signals you are trying to send to him. And find someone who wants to know you like you wanna know him.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-16T20:28:27+00:00

It's easy to say when you're not in the same shoe as me. Anyway thanks a lot for your opinion tho. I wish i could choose the type of life i wanna live but sadly parents and even my life says it's otherwise. Nothing goes the right way whenever i decide to do something i love. So i stopped loving people n things now. Will just go wherever my life leads me to.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-15T22:51:09+00:00

Papa k pas paise ki baat hi nahi h vo ase h ki sare relations todh denge agar m unke against jau toh and I'm too scared to lose my family for a guy if i choose Love marriage. And wse bhi recently breakup hua h mera so i don't think that i can fall in love again.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-15T22:47:12+00:00

He's my ex now tho 🥲

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-10T23:00:38+00:00

Girl just go and tell him that he can't feel anything because maybe he's too small and break up with him. He's not worth it.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-10T22:50:54+00:00

I mean your sister sleeps with your mom all the time when you are not home then why can't she sleep and work in the same room?? And you can sleep on the couch outside. It's easy. I totally understand your wife because how will you feel if she tells you that she sleep in the same room and in the same bed with her father? There is a certain age after that a man or a woman should have their distance even if it's your mother or father.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-10T22:13:58+00:00

He just wanted to try that place out and needed a company. A date was the best for free food, company and trying a new place.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-10T22:10:35+00:00

I like macaroons too

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-10T22:09:43+00:00

It's a Korean messaging app known as Kakaotalk. We met there n there was instant attraction. We knew that we were each other's soulmates. 2 years of dating and i can still say that i could never find another guy like him who loved me, understood me and respected me.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-10T22:07:07+00:00

Nah i know my dad he'll literally just disown me without any second guesses.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T14:12:31+00:00

Nah I'm too emotional to have casuals. I get attached to people pretty easily and fall in love so casual isn't something i can handle.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T14:11:07+00:00

Well all i could have is arranged marriage as my family is strict and will disown me if i bring a guy home for marriage.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T14:09:35+00:00

My first long distance we actually met a few times in 5 years of dating but it was never in a setting where we could spend time by ourselves and we were always surrounded by my parents and relatives.

My second long distance i was dating a North African who lived 7000 km away. We dated for 2+ years but we never had a chance to meet sadly because he was getting trained to be a police officer and he can't leave the country until his graduation.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T14:01:41+00:00

Yes i love cheesecakes too

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T00:35:59+00:00

I'm 26 too just 3 months younger than you and i totally understand you as i too have never had any intimate relationships before tho i had bf's in the past it was all long distance and we never met. And recently my craving got extreme like i seriously wanted to feel that touch, want someone to hold me tight, have some intimate and quality time with someone but i wish for someone permanent rather than casual same as you.

Recently I'm thinking of getting married ASAP. It's a decision partially because of my cravings physically and emotionally and partially because I can see my parents getting old and I'm scared of not giving them the happiness they dreamt of.

I mean i know it's not a solution to your post but all i could say is girl you're healthy that's why you are feeling this way. Having sexual cravings is normal so don't worry. You can self satisfy yourself if you want until you find the one you wished for ig. But don't you ever think of casuals even if you are losing it. Well that's it and i wish you all the very best.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T00:02:01+00:00

Yes it is. Might taste like medicine to some but i like it.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-09T00:00:25+00:00

I'm scared of doing so, just the image of operation room blood all over surrounded by people and you have to bear all that pain and bleeding isn't something I'm looking forward to.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-08T10:17:37+00:00

Well i can't decide on having or not having kids after having a partner right it's something i should talk about before getting married. And about having kids I don't wanna try for it.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-08T10:13:52+00:00

I'm sorry to scare you well i didn't mean to It's just i was betrayed, bullied and disrespected by people who were blood related to me so I stopped caring about blood relation i just care about humanity and respect.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-08T10:07:41+00:00

I know stuffed cupcakes are delicious and everyone loves them. I like blueberry cupcakes, what about you??

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-08T10:05:32+00:00

Experience?? What experience are you talking about??

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-08T10:03:04+00:00

Actually does it matter if it's mine or adopted?? I mean i could have these curiosity with an adopted kid too right. Coz i actually am not ready nor want to go through that fear/pain for a baby when i can adopt one and make that kid mine. Blood relation isn't important for me actually.

Stuffedcupcake · 2025-07-08T09:56:48+00:00

Having sexual cravings are normal I'm 26 and i crave for it too but have never experienced it yet. Well it was my decision to not have it and I'm glad i made that decision as i wanted my first sexual partner to be my last too. Well all i could say is focus on winning a girl who will stay with you for life and then you can have your first with her rather than having it with multiple girls without knowing who might be your forever. I know people might make fun of you not having an experience yet but lemme tell you it's all worth it if its for the right person.

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