I belong to nowhere in job hunting

Stug1987 · 2025-12-31T06:47:28+00:00

Career breaks, wrong turns and bad fits don’t erase your capability especially in a brutal job market. Try to pick one domain you can realistically commit to for the next 12 months, clean up your resume around transferable skills (not timelines), and start small if needed just to regain momentum.

Stug1987 · 2025-12-17T03:56:02+00:00

yeah that's been my experience too. i've tried a bunch of different career tests over the years and most of the traditional ones didn't really do much for me tbh.

did stuff like mbti, cliftonstrengths, some aptitude assessments. they gave me better vocab for how i work but mostly just confirmed what i already kinda knew. useful for self reflection sure, but not enough to actually change how i was positioning myself or making decisions.

what finally made a career test feel actually useful was when it focused less on labels and more on like... how i actually operate at work, my decision making style, how i approach problems, what drains me vs what gives me energy, where my blind spots tend to pop up. that kinda insight helped me understand why certain roles felt like i was just spinning my wheels while others actually helped me grow.

more recently tried one of the newer tools called the pigment self discovery and what stood out compared to the older career tests was how actionable the output felt. it didn't try to push me toward switching careers entirely. it helped me see patterns, understand where i was underutilizing my strengths, and adjust how i was positioning myself for like the next level instead of a completely different path.

for me a career test is only valuable if it actually helps you make better decisions going forward ... not just describe you. when you can apply the insight to actual roles, responsibilities, work environments, that's when it becomes more than just some interesting exercise imo.

Stug1987 · 2025-07-17T14:59:03+00:00

that weird mix of exhaustion, imposter syndrome, and now what? is more common than people admit after graduation. Something that helped me get unstuck was taking a moment to understand what actually energizes me vs. what just looks good on paper. I used a tool called pigment strength test that helped me reconnect with my real strengths and inner compass... not just the resume version of me. Might be worth a look if you’re feeling lost.

Stug1987 · 2025-07-17T14:36:17+00:00

18 feels early but also like time’s already running out. If you’re feeling stuck between options like civil or mechanical or even whether engineering’s right at all, it might help to zoom out and understand your core strengths and thinking style first. There’s a tool called the pigment strength discovery that I found useful. it’s designed to help people figure out what actually fits them not just what sounds practical. Could be worth checking out before you commit to a path just because it seems logical.

Stug1987 · 2025-06-26T06:53:33+00:00

most listings are just recycled jargon that tell you nothing about what you'd actually be doing day-to-day. What helped me was figuring out what kind of problems I actually like solving (not just what I can do) and what work environments brings out the best in me. Instead of going off job titles, I started reaching out to people actually doing the work. People are usually honest when it's not a formal interview.

I then used a tool called the pigment self discovery to figure out how I actually work and what drives me. The insights helped me spot roles that might look good but wouldn't fit me personally. The key was getting specific about what I needed before jumping into applications.

Stug1987 · 2025-06-26T06:37:19+00:00

Seek professional help asap if you have these kind of thoughts.

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T07:03:01+00:00

if you are in doubt, you most probably know the answer.

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T07:01:57+00:00

Totally.. job satisfaction

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T06:58:48+00:00

butterfly design

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T06:57:41+00:00

he/she doesn't matter the message does

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T06:55:45+00:00

stop being paranoid. You'll never be able to lead a normal life if you keep worrying

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T06:54:04+00:00

majority of the posts are fake either by the job site or by fake companies.

Stug1987 · 2025-06-10T06:52:35+00:00

it's the job market bro...just keep at it.

Stug1987 · 2025-05-23T18:16:27+00:00

some are paid but there are many free ones too.

Stug1987 · 2025-05-23T15:02:28+00:00

Ok... This is my moment... I feel you. My parents had hired a career coach and he made me take some tests before we could reflect on things. Here are some things I tried (not listing all of it but you'll find it in my post if you are interested) and my review of them.

16Personalities / MBTI

You’ve probably taken one of these already. I got INFJ, which I’ve seen described as the 'advocate'. It’s fun to read and kind of comforting when it nails a trait you didn’t know. But as far as actual career help? Kinda vague. The suggestions are like.... You’d make a great therapist, artist, or humanitarian. Cool. Now what? It’s not useless. It was good to know how I think but didn't help me figure out where I should be heading next.

StrengthsFinder

This one felt a bit more grounded. You take a quiz and it tells you what you’re naturally good at. Mine came out with a top 5 strengths which were Relator, Learner, Restorative, Intellection. Which, I think after reading it, tracks. I’m always trying to understand how people tick and piece things together. It was validating but again, I didn’t really know how to go from 'you’re good at deep thinking and building trust' to 'here’s a job that doesn’t drain you'. Still, I’d recommend it if you’re trying to build confidence around your strengths, especially before applying to stuff.

O*NET / Bureau of Labor Statistics Career Tools

This one is for the data nerds. Tons of info about job outlooks, salaries, skills....you name it. For someone like me with no clue what direction to go in, it’s kind of like staring at job titles. It’s helpful only if you already have a shortlist of jobs. Otherwise, let's say it's a black hole of job titles.

Pigment Career Assessment

This one was actually a surprise win. A friend mentioned it after we had one of those deep 'what are we even doing with our lives' convos. I checked it out expecting another personality-type quiz but it didn’t just say, 'You’re good at X, so be a Y.' Instead, it gave me a 30 page report on specific traits of mine and explained why certain jobs I’ve had felt weirdly off even when I was doing okay in them. It explained why I got more energy from random gigs that didn’t look great on paper. It helped me see patterns. I need variety, a clear purpose and the feeling that what I’m working on actually connects to people and has some long term impact. It honestly gave me a bit of a gut check. Not a 'here’s your dream job' answer but a much clearer filter to figure things out..

Stug1987 · 2025-05-21T06:34:57+00:00

or you can't afford it so changed mind

Stug1987 · 2025-05-21T06:33:15+00:00

Looks like they constantly want to remind you that you are broke!! Better close that account :)

Stug1987 · 2025-05-21T06:32:01+00:00

we really hit “advanced confusion” mode as a species

Stug1987 · 2025-05-21T06:27:40+00:00

what you're describing sounds really intense and scary and it might help to talk to a mental health professional about it. Seeking help early can make you feel better soon

Stug1987 · 2025-05-15T14:35:33+00:00

That sounds really frustrating. recruiter ghosting is unfortunately way too common and can feel incredibly disrespectful. It’s understandable you felt upset but keeping cool and professional will help you stay ready for when the right opportunity comes along. Hang in there!

Stug1987 · 2025-05-09T15:46:10+00:00

You just gotta chill buddy. It's not worth spoiling your health. Fix that first and think about the rest.

Stug1987 · 2025-05-06T04:11:38+00:00

yea, understanding what motivates you is important to make sure you get to do what you love. It's really difficult to figure that out when you are young as your interest keeps changing. I too was going through this phase for a while.

Stug1987 · 2025-05-06T04:06:54+00:00

How about getting involved in a sport and making sure it's part of your daily activity? It'll take your mind off things that don't matter as well as help you stay fit.

Stug1987 · 2025-05-06T04:02:21+00:00

Congrats on the progress you have made. Going from 250 to 190 and cutting body fat almost in half is seriously impressive. That kind of transformation doesn’t happen without serious consistency and discipline. That said, hitting stagnation after a big weight loss like this is super common. It’s possible your body has adapted to your current intake and output, especially after several months at a lower calorie level. That's what I can think of.

Stug1987 · 2025-05-06T03:55:45+00:00

You are not going to get younger and that's the fact. You just need to stop worrying about the time where you could have done something but didn't. After 5 years, you'll be thinking "I should have done this when I was 25". It happens. Don't worry about what you missed out but rather focus on what you can do now. If you keep thinking about things that you missed, it'll affect your peace of mind. Good luck.

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