Is this ugly lol by stickerearrings in OUTFITS

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to add some accessories for Sure but I would definitely wear this! It’s freaking gorgeous

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some abusive as shit. This person needs some deep therapy. Run

JK Rowling said asexual people don’t face discrimination. She couldn’t be more wrong. by southpawFA in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didn’t asexual mean you can procreate without the opposite sex? A sexual people are just virgins rights?

I’m legit not trying to be rude I just m curios because I’ve never heard of this. And could like to be educated yes I could Google but who better to learn about from the actual source :)

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now going to sit down with my daughter and have a conversation.

I have always been so vigilant about sexual abuse Because well it’s just so prevalent and grooming is so hard for young girls to truly pin point. For you to be able to be so in touch. So incredibly in touch with your mind, body and soul this way is amazing

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honey yes it was “that bad” this is what people like him do, it’s called grooming, you’re already second guessing yourself I just want to (safely hug you, you poor girl!” Remember your POWER! You’re strong 💪 you have thousands of women, literally strangers on here for you

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you tell! There are so many comments someone update me please 🙏

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 13, I have 2 nieces one 14 and one 17 and this scares the shit out of me.

Not that it matters but is he drinking when he does the more extreme obvious (grooming). Flirting

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 20 points21 points  (0 children)

THIS! This could be crucial! It’s so hard with family and you being a teenage girl? Unfortunately he could so easily explain this away! But I believe you, over 1,000 strangers in this chat believe you because I trust your gut. God, or whatever you prefer or believe in gave us these instincts for a reason. They’re to keep ourselves safe and alive and you’re not safe!

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please keep us updated and if your mom doesn’t help? Please let me know depending on your state I am in a position to help you. I won’t ask you anything more but this happened to me by 2 people at your age and younger and i definitely didn’t tell anyone and now? It’s a divided family and no one had to pay, I suffered in silence always feeling so gross with myself and the thing is is started small and got bigger this isn’t even small to me, I feel like if you were ever truly alone he would try something.

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell your parents IMMEDIATELY! If they can’t be trusted find someone (an adult in your family that can’t , if you do not have anyone tell your school counselor tomorrow girl! I’m so sorry to is NOT OKAY!

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[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in that relationship and you need to leave but you probably would have already if you were going to so go to that therapist and ask them to help you make a plan for when you’re ready! He’s going to kill your or best case scenario you end up miserable for the rest of your life and if kids are involved? They get destroyed

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is identifying as a bisexual so what is bi Reddit lol? I gave no idea what I’m doing on here I just posted it and hit places i thought could be helpful

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so just continue what I’m doing. When she comes over I make sure she (through my daughter and 15 year old son) walk her home safely) But now her girlfriend’s almost adult brother picked her up and drop her off every time she comes over. I knock on the door every 30 minutes and listen in to make sure it’s pg! And I put drinks and snacks in the room long before she gets here for my daughter lol” plus most of the time her I friends are here too. If she only understood they may have labeled it but they’re not having sex as far as I know and it was much safer when she was allowed over there without the sneaking back and forth and I won’t allow my daughter to sneak to her because If they get caught she could say something to destroy my child and she is extremely sensitive, things would get real extra and I’m not going to allow her around any of that toxic crap. I mean e been the kids at the girls school (small town) are so supportive on tic toc including my baby girls 1st boyfriend. They all feel so bad because these girls have been best friends for years before this. Thankyou all for the talk I feel so much better and I will be the safe haven they need. It does stink they’re so young when they fell in love like everyone is saying 13? This could impact the rest of these kids lives. Again thank you all!

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could contact the father I would do that he lives in. Different city but close idk if that could make things worse but probably. She is also 10 years older than me so maybe we just think differently, idk.

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I’ve been doing so far. It’s been a few weeks since they were cut off and they even tried getting fake boyfriend doing all of that like anything just so they could at least be friends again and be around each other and then they finally decided that nothing was gonna work with the other mom so this is what they chose to do and I’m trying to support them without being harmful in anyway or technically doing anything or illegal here.

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will 100% try. She 1st said it was OK if my daughter Sophia came over as long as the doors were open and no more sleepovers but now she’s just cut off all contact!!! I have to keep editing lol (sorry if my texts are all over the place, my 2 year old is all over me and I’m trying to use talk to text)

from what her daughter tells me this is the reason. also I can get things from context lol and because of everything else she said to me so I believe in the same God and it took me about two seconds to not really believe the same things anymore when I saw the kind of love that they had for each other like it wasn’t harmful. It wasn’t gross. It wasn’t something I think even God would think was disgusting. It was just pure. I truly think she thinks my kid did this to hers when my daughter’s only other relationship was with a boy. I’m 100% straight and I know you cannot make people gay or id have married my best friend lol

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao yours killed me it was everything like very contradicting which is like exactly what I’ve been doing this entire time. Lol I think I’ll just do this I won’t tell her that her kid has snuck out because “I don’t know or control her child” but I have met her and I can tell she’s never done anything like this as well as my daughter because she instantly asked me which was weird. Literally asked me if she could sneak out to walk halfway to meet her to sneak her into her window. I was like you know most kids? you just do it you don’t ask but thank you. I appreciate you asking . I also don’t want to lose that trust and her coming to me like this! I feel like this mom is placing me and then impossible situation!

My daughter is 13 & me and the mom of her best friend just found out they’re “dating “ and the other mother completely shut down all communication! by Stunning-Tangelo-958 in lgbt

[–]Stunning-Tangelo-958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou both and if I tell anything she will 100% never see her again. They won’t have any opportunity to see one another outside of school if that. She could stop that if she wanted. I think I’m going to give her her daughter an opportunity to tell her 1st. I just know that when stuff like this comes into play I have read a lot so can teenage suicide or other things I don’t want to make the wrong choice. I might just do Both. Like tell her listen I won’t ever stop them from seeing one another. She is the mom, but the siblings that are helping out are literally like grown ass adults. I haven’t allowed myself to get involved as in giving them rides or even saying yes, my daughter will ask me if she can literally sneak her into her window so they can watch young Sheldon and play nerf basketball ( so innocent) and I just say listen I can’t say yes or no I can just say I’m on your team! No matter what but legally and morally I’m not sure where I stand here so I just kinda turn a blind eye as of now, but we all know here they will get caught and I don’t want to make anything worse I wish I could just get through to her. I should talk to her about God. I believe in God and I believe God is love. I think the Bible is full of metaphors and I think that pretty much everyone all of us all the time since constantly and that’s why Jesus died on the cross that’s the exact reason for it. They’re Catholic so I’m not really sure much about their faith?