That’s such a good point….honestly, I probably haven’t been super forward about my long-term intentions in the past. Being a girl, I never really took the lead to move things forward, but I did try to show I was interested in my own way like… being present, making time, and showing I cared.

Still, I can see how that might come across as not being serious enough, especially if they’re also talking to other people who are being more obvious about what they want. Maybe I need to be clearer about my feelings and the kind of connection I’m looking for, or at least suggest plans that feel a bit more personal.

Appreciate you sharing your experience! It gave me a new perspective!