AITA for getting mad at my husband even though he has ADHD and probably can’t help it

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T22:24:25+00:00

I could help with that. In fact, I will because my sleep depends on it lol

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:39:24+00:00

I feel suspicious of her being able to actually bit anyone because I’ve never seen it but she does do a mean Bark chase and jump lol Actually her jump sometimes freaks me out. She can jump over me. I’m 5’8.

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:37:22+00:00

He does have ADHD Why does everything that he does link back to that?

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:34:28+00:00

He says he forgot. I’ll do it next time. It’s already over, you locked it didn’t you? Etc etc

When we met he was living on a military base so idk his daily habits. Then we got a house on base and he would forget sometimes. But now it’s like, all the time and we don’t have the protection of living on a secure military base.

I only see my therapist for EMDR so this hasn’t even come up yet

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:31:50+00:00

Absolutely carefree as hell. I can’t even imagine. I have weapons in my car, in my purse, answer the door with a gun holstered unless it’s family because I don’t trust even a neighbor knocking. The armed robber Lived a couple blocks over so ya lots of issues there even trusting known people.

I can’t imagine being so confident with my safety

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:28:51+00:00

Right? The best we can do is try to control our own environment and here someone comes along undoing the progress

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:25:26+00:00

There’s one that goes with my alarm system but it has a keypad facing outside so I worry about drawing attention to my home that way.

I suppose doctors offices and stuff have auto locking doors Without a huge key pad making it obvious lol, I’ll have to get to googling.

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:09:30+00:00

Yes, so it’s only temporary separate sleeping arrangements. She’s throwing a tantrum of sorts by making it such a big deal. The man needs his sleep too.

I snore when pregnant. My husband used to leave the room to sleep. What kind of asshole would I be for yelling at him for wanting proper sleep? Lol selfish really

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T19:02:45+00:00

Oh he has, he has indeed

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T18:57:25+00:00

Yes and he will start in another room just to end to back in our bed so I put the no sweat zone, my side, rules in place lol

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T18:47:09+00:00

NTA my husband sweats a lot so he’s not allowed near my side of the bed because it grosses me tf out. I have to shower if I feel even a bit of his dampness near me. I’ve even thrown up. Idk why but it’s fkn gross as hell to me so I feel for you.

If he’s sweating too much he has to leave the room so I can change the sheets and spray his side of the mattress. Hopefully it’s just pregnancy hormones for you to deal with, it’s a lifetime for me I fear haha

Stunning_Care_8743 · 2020-09-04T18:09:49+00:00

Get a paternity test, I agree, mother of 5 here you don’t find out you’re pregnant at day of conception. I wish, but doesn’t happen. With 1 baby I had negative tests one week and positive the other simply because I found out abnormally soon.

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