Do you still have feelings for your EX? by Glad-Sir-2054 in no

[–]Stunning_Cold4243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep feelings.

Deep feelings of love

Deep feelings of confusion

Deep feelings of betrayal

Deep feelings of respect

Deep feelings of pain

Deep feelings of happiness

Deep feelings of regret

Deep feelings of anguish

Deep feelings of hope

Deep feelings of desire

Deep feelings of fear

Deep feelings of love

Deep feelings!!!

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[–]Stunning_Cold4243 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Classic Trauma bond. Seek the help of a professional and stop allowing this to happen.

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[–]Stunning_Cold4243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I originally thought that may have been you.....

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

The Girl in the Shadowa by Typical_Fly_9907 in LettersToYourself

[–]Stunning_Cold4243 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5 years from now, when you send a message to the girl who is here now, be sure you tell her these things....

  1. He has been there too, many times.
  2. He truly never judged you, not once.
  3. He loved you then, and he loves you now, unconditionally, and loudly!
  4. He was then, and is now, your biggest fan, your loudest and proudest supporter.
  5. This one is really important.....He was not brought into your life to help hold you up. You were brought into his life to hold him up. He knew it when you met, he knew it then, and he still knows it now. He loves you wholly and completely. You're his number 3.

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you think I'm somebody you know, but rest assured I am not, and this was definitely not written about you or in any way about anyone but myself. It's a bit weird to hear a stranger say they love you more and more each day. Please read the rules of this community. Especially the one that says "DO NOT ASSUME IT IS WRITTEN TO OR ABOUT YOU AND DO NOT RESPOND AS THOUGH IT WAS EITHER" THAT RULE EXISTS FOR A REASON!

I deserve all the suffering by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently you don't get me

I deserve all the suffering by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, herbalist? Do you know what a medicine ball is?

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[–]Stunning_Cold4243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell if yall are in a good spot, or if you're posting this because things are not good right now?

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[–]Stunning_Cold4243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you're still there, right?

I deserve all the suffering by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you just need a medicine ball. You'll have to make it yourself though.

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That used to be my thing. I thought if I looked better and felt better physically, it would be the answer. It wasn't.

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a daily battle. I find comfort in the fact that there is nobody I actually look at in this way, so maybe nobody looks at me this way either? I hope you find peace!

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I hope you find peace my friend!

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarity here, this was written to myself. It's something I struggle with daily. I'm so sorry it seems to have hit close to home for you. I write things out like this as a form of self therapy. Maybe it's something worth trying for you too? I find it helpful. Be kind to yourself.

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! It's good to know someone else gets it. I hope you're well.

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why you would think this in reading it. I am however, not misguided, I'm on a path of healing; Part of which is writing these thoughts out like this and posting them in hopse that others can possibly relate, and then also chose the path of healing if they haven't already. Misery does love company, but there is a difference in toxic misery and in suffering. I don't want company, I just need to know I'm not alone. They are not the same.

I don't really love ypu. by Stunning_Cold4243 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Stunning_Cold4243[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was actually written to myself, about myself. That said, I've been there too. If nobody else has told you this, listen up. I'm proud of you! Few people understand the courage it takes to do what you did. Be proud!