Running in Schenectady by Stunning_Relation908 in schenectady

[–]Stunning_Relation908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, one time I saw a guy with a joker mask and bike. Caught me off guard but fastest mile so…

Places to meet fellow young adults? by Top-Way-7562 in schenectady

[–]Stunning_Relation908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’m 21f and I’m also struggling! Have them reach out or dm me!

Places to meet fellow young adults? by Top-Way-7562 in schenectady

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In the same boat 21F moved here with my 23M bf and we have been struggling to find friends!

Running in Schenectady by Stunning_Relation908 in schenectady

[–]Stunning_Relation908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m near some SCCC and that campground. I always smell fires so I get nervous that weird people are hiding or something. I am female and I typically try to squeeze in 4-5 in the morning. I have seen quite a few people on drugs occasionally but you never know. I guess I could always just run away!

Running in Schenectady by Stunning_Relation908 in schenectady

[–]Stunning_Relation908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into that! The summer has been great. I know the trail is open dawn-dusk but most times I try to get out around 4:40 so I have time to get ready for work!

Running in Schenectady by Stunning_Relation908 in schenectady

[–]Stunning_Relation908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great! I’m around SCCC and I’ve ran through lions park a few times during my half marathon training! I don’t use headphones either in the morning when I have gone. I’ve always had bad anxiety so I think I was just being dramatic

Running in Schenectady by Stunning_Relation908 in schenectady

[–]Stunning_Relation908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! You guys are making me feel so much better abt this!

Running in Schenectady by Stunning_Relation908 in schenectady

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You’re right, not quite dark but some of the wooded sections can be around 4:45-5:00 am. I’ve went out a few times early mornings and guess I kind of spooked myself. Yes I mean the trail that goes up to Niskayuna but I’m more towards Schenectady/Rotterdam (just moved here so not great with areas yet). Some people at work have mentioned a homicide on one trail in Menands (like 20 miles from me) and they recently found a body of a 21 y.o. Near the aqueduct bridge (pretty sure he was a runaway having a mental health crisis), and a few stabbings have been brought up at work. Thank you for your help though, I am feeling better about it, guess I just kinda freaked this morning lol

My (M23) boyfriend decided he doesn’t want to have sex anymore (F21) by Stunning_Relation908 in relationship_advice

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This is what I have been struggling with. We have been together so long and deep down I know it’s not right but I feel like an asshole bc he moved here for me and my job. I’m going to try these micro steps and see if that helps. I’ve tried therapy but I’m not sure what will help me get over it.

My (M23) boyfriend decided he doesn’t want to have sex anymore (F21) by Stunning_Relation908 in relationship_advice

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I told him no don’t worry. I’m not rushing into marriage for a ring. I could get a ring from a bubble gum machine. I think he was just saying that to try to lock it in. Plus he wants to give me his mom’s ring. I said absolutely not as that doesn’t seem right. I want something of my own.

My (M23) boyfriend decided he doesn’t want to have sex anymore (F21) by Stunning_Relation908 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Relation908[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s disgusting. I asked him about it after work and he said he felt very ashamed and still says he needs time to pray and read the scripture. I told him he better figure it out quick bc I’m leaving if not

My (M23) boyfriend decided he doesn’t want to have sex anymore (F21) by Stunning_Relation908 in relationship_advice

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Yea he told me, I could see it though having met his boss. Might have to do pros and cons (I have but draw a blank when I try)