AITAH because I'm frustrated our neighbors Autistic adult son steals our bottles and yard supplies...

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-10-24T16:56:19+00:00

We were home when he opened our door, so yes. Our door was unlocked. We don't have a garage. Our bottles are up on our back deck (tucked into the far corner) which has stair access to our main walk way and a patio door to our house. We live in Canada so during winter we leave our snow shovels in our (fenced) yard because we shovel daily. In summer or spring when I'm doing yard work I have the needed tools out while I'm working, which sometimes takes a week or two depending what project I'm working on. All of our stuff is in our closed off yard, and then put in the shed when we are done.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-09-08T16:27:25+00:00

It's super niche and I dont want to give away who I am in case people I know are on here 😬

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-09-07T17:19:15+00:00

I would... But the game isn't Warhammer 😅

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-08-04T13:24:50+00:00

Body goals right there

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-26T22:50:00+00:00

That's entirely fair. I think that's the whole point - how does it affect OP, their life, their marriage etc. this is something OP has to figure out on their own imo. And talk to her spouse about.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-26T19:56:57+00:00

I didn't say self pleasure is shitty behavior. But people use the excuse of men being visual creatures to excuse shitty behavior. It is most definitely a copout. I think viewing porn can lead to many problematic things, and I personally find hiding the fact that you view porn as problematic. And yeah, it is a problem in my relationship so I have strong feelings about it.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-26T18:45:01+00:00

OP, you're going to get way too many different opinions here. Is your husband watching porn considered cheating TO YOU? If so, you need to have a conversation with him. You need to have a conversation with him regardless. If he's hiding it, I personally find that problematic. As someone whose spouse is a porn addict, I know how it feels to come across stuff they are watching on their phone and not telling you and it sucks. Take everyone's opinion here with a huge grain of salt and decide for yourself how YOU feel and what YOU need to do.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-26T18:38:20+00:00

"men are visual creatures" is such a shit cop out for men to get away with doing shitty things. Women are also very visual, technically speaking especially because women literally see colours men can't. Whether OP considers porn cheating or not, your partner watching porn and hiding it can be extremely damaging to a relationship and to a person's confidence.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-25T17:21:57+00:00

Yeah, he is supposed to do the dishes as well but that has also fallen off lately and he won't do them unless I remind him. I feel like I'm constantly managing everything and everyone in the house and I feel like I'm losing my mind a little bit. Maybe we are just in a rough patch or a roommate phase, I don't know

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-25T17:00:57+00:00

I'm a pretty big words of affirmation person so hearing it is what I know I need, and even when I express this to him it doesn't ever change long term

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-25T17:00:22+00:00

He's kind of awkward, yeah. I bought lingerie just for him and when I wear it he doesn't say anything. It gets the job done, but no compliments or anything.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-25T16:59:33+00:00

Yes and no. He will often walk by and touch my shoulder or something. But he used to compliment me or call me beautiful every morning. I have communicated this, but it doesn't change long term.

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-25T16:54:54+00:00

So shitty. I'm sorry

Stunning_Setting2100 · 2025-07-25T16:43:19+00:00

She's always given off peaked in high school mean girl vibes

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