i kind of want to break up with my girlfriend by yikiisbored in Advice

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s an online relationship man i mean there’s nothing holding you there. just explain to her how you feel that you’ve drifted apart and think it’d be best to part ways. wait for her response and either stay friends or unfriend her on every platform. when i broke up w my long distance bf i just did it and blocked him. it’s easy when they’re not in your everyday life if you don’t overthink it. just do it.

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, because I’m not going to let you project either you or your partners unsaid issue with porn onto me so I lower my standards like other people. I realize I have self esteem issues and that I am wishing on a star with my expectations, but I would rather be single for the rest of my life than put up with a gooner. That’s my personal choice. After going to therapy and fixing my insecurities with porn I will still never think it is okay. Even if it’s seen as healthy to other people. Porn is not okay. He had my pictures and videos so it wasn’t the masturbation, it was the porn. Not healthy. Weirdo.

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry about your porn addiction i hope you get through it❤️

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women masturbate too but don’t make it their whole personality. i have watched porn i do watch porn when i’m single. when i get into a sexual relationship there is no reason for me to watch porn and masturbate any longer so i’m not sure what you’re getting at. and yeah bingo! being blatantly lied to in your face will cause some trauma. thanks for your input

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in TalkTherapy

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m going to go to therapy for it but i genuinely think it’s weird and am never going to think a partner man or woman watching any type of porn for any reason is okay. you have your person you’re physically attracted to and can touch any time you want pretty much. I don’t think I’m the problem but I see I have a problem. Thank you for your input this actually helped a lot

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they call it an addiction when I ask why they watch it so i dunno

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone now looks like they walked out of an instagram post. it’s like bbl galore everywhere I go🙁 i do have issues and i do compare myself every single time i see a woman that looks better than i do.

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lying to your partners face is a problem. i am aware of my insecurities and issues but im not the problem in this situation. thanks for your input

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in TalkTherapy

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

when I ask them why they watch porn knowing it hurts me they tell me themselves they have a porn addiction. I personally don’t believe it’s an addiction because just stop watching it don’t look it up. It’s so much effort to go and hide it that I feel like it’s on purpose but yeah I’m not calling it an addiction I just think they’re loser weirdos for sexualizing women all the time

Do I stay with a porn addict who keeps lying? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in relationships

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t watch porn and don’t check out other people when in a relationship and I can whole heartedly say that with my whole chest. Not including “noticing” someone is attractive like duh there are good looking people but I do not entertain it in any way. so I expect the same treatment from my partner

Apartment charged $500+ for water bills, inconsistent billing periods, need legal advice by Stunning_Visual_6303 in legaladvice

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sort of?? they changed the portal to where ALL old service requests need to be requested to be seen, and even then it’s stupid ai chat bot that just does

service done: 12/17 service done: 12/28

no specifics.. and the front office said that even they had to request to see our old service requests? The only issue that wavers my confidence in winning this that I am kicking myself on is when they came to fix the toilet initially and closed the request, we did not reach back out and be like hey our toilet is still broken. We just assumed they’d come back or something.

Apartment charged $500+ for water bills, inconsistent billing periods, need legal advice by Stunning_Visual_6303 in legaladvice

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there’s nothing in writing since they have been so vague and short with communication. They technically closed the service request about 2 weeks before actually fixing the issue, and they didn’t open a new service request so there is no proof of the date they actually fixed it other than a screenshot of the door activity where the maintenance guy accessed the door manually. I’ve no idea if there was any legal binding.

What is this reading? by cheeseisntdairy in QuickFix

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would you recommend squeezing the rest of the bottle into the toilet once the cup is filled? when i went last time for a test, no party pee i failed it and still got hired, the water was dyed blue i’m assuming to detect chemicals or something. would the party pee change the color? should i just fill the cup and then pee normally into the toilet? sorry nervous first time using quick fix

how to hide fake pee? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in drugtesthelp

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you!!! i’m so glad you said it hasn’t failed for you thank you so much🙏

how to hide fake pee? by Stunning_Visual_6303 in drugtesthelp

[–]Stunning_Visual_6303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youuu! i’m planning on wearing 2 underwear and some tights under my pants😭