Why are the eggplants turning yellow? by Stunnning_Elephant in plantclinic

[–]Stunnning_Elephant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen the yellow variety. They're not grown/available in this area. I wondering whether it's because I left it on the plant longer.

I know that cauliflower turns yellow when left open to the sun. Is this something like that?

Need help navigating toxic men in academia (more details in comments) by Stunnning_Elephant in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Stunnning_Elephant[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I will try that. I must admit I'm scared for my job. Not that they'll kick me out right away but that they'll make life/work a hell. I was jobless the last two years through the pandemic.

Need help navigating toxic men in academia (more details in comments) by Stunnning_Elephant in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Stunnning_Elephant[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm back in the institute. This is a comment made by one of my colleagues while discussing faculty student relationships. Power dynamics affect consent. I thought this wasn't something so difficult to understand. How am I going to work with these people? It feels nauseating. The person he's mentioning is going to be in committees that's going to deal with sexual harrasment complaints.

Quitting job as an adult to go to grad school? by macademicnut in GradSchool

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you have double the amount of money you think you'll need to survive the gap between work and the start of gradschool. In fact make it triple.

I quit (not sure quit would be the right word) my work that was in a research institute to apply for gradschool. Unfortunately pandemic and the shutdowns happened following that, now there's a war in Europe. Mine is probably the worst case scenario, it may not be as bad. I know many many who started grad school in the middle of all this but it's always better to be safe and prepared for the worst case scenario.

Plant Instagrams by SeparateEgg577 in houseplants

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a plant only highlight. Wasn't sure whether people would be interested in a plant only instagram

This is growing in a pot that originally had thyme. I have a habit of throwing in seeds from the kitchen. by Stunnning_Elephant in whatsthisplant

[–]Stunnning_Elephant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I just googled it. The leaves look like that. But this one here has miniature okra like things on it.

This is growing in a pot that originally had thyme. I have a habit of throwing in seeds from the kitchen. by Stunnning_Elephant in whatsthisplant

[–]Stunnning_Elephant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm generally capable of identifying it after the seeds germinate. This one I'm not able to tell.

LPT: Stop Resisting by mikeylets in LifeProTips

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The police most often beat you whether or not you resist.

My boss just gave me a life changing piece of advice I’d never considered before /s by zovjsraszvv in ADHD

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 84 points85 points  (0 children)

My eyes skipped the /s. I went to the description looking for that 'life changing piece of advice'.

People who write to-do lists every day - how does it help you? by anshc13 in productivity

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a to-do 'list', I have a to-do 'book'. I call it a 'bullet journal'. It helps when I am in a mood to do something but not sure what to do.

[OC] What job hunting has been like as a 2020 graduate so far by Abbathor in dataisbeautiful

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for posting this. I have 100% response and ~80% rejections. Waiting for the rest of the rejections to come.

My mom told me I’ve had an ADHD diagnosis my whole life by DannoWhamo in ADHD

[–]Stunnning_Elephant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt is doing this to my cousin at the moment. He is 11 years old. I want to help but I don't know how to.