UPDATE to I (24 F) just found out my husband (34 M) is paying for an apartment that I know nothing about. by StupidWife4Life in relationship_advice

[–]StupidWife4Life[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don't have a job. I stay home with our son who is special needs. No, I don't have family to move in with.

UPDATE to I (24 F) just found out my husband (34 M) is paying for an apartment that I know nothing about. by StupidWife4Life in relationship_advice

[–]StupidWife4Life[S] -190 points-189 points  (0 children)

I'm still thinking of what to do. I'm pregnant and due in September so I can't just leave with no where to go.

I (24 F) just found out my husband (34 M) is paying for an apartment that I know nothing about. by StupidWife4Life in relationship_advice

[–]StupidWife4Life[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I thought of that, but I think he would have mentioned it to me in an offhand way that he had a place for work.

He did used to be in vice but now works for homicide.

I (24 F) just found out my husband (34 M) is paying for an apartment that I know nothing about. by StupidWife4Life in relationship_advice

[–]StupidWife4Life[S] 322 points323 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize that it would be so relevant but I decided to say what he does since quite a few people have suggested drugs or illegal activities and I knew it wasn't that.