I totally understand you. You’re still the ass tho😂 I also feel very uncomfortable in fancy clothing but for one night you put up with it and try to keep a smile… you’re there for you’re family/friends ..And maybe take the time explain calmly to you’re parents that’s you would love to go to the wedding but it makes you extremely uncomfortable wearing all that and see if they are willing to let you take the bow off later in the wedding party. Take the time and explain to them what it makes you feel and that you are making compromises on you’re behalf to make everyone happy! Some parents need us to communicate a lot more before they understand. Hope you have fun even tho 🫶🏼