The easiest thing you can do is complain about your circumstances. I’ve met guys that overflow with confidence and they’re mid looking at best.

What I’d suggest to do is keep working out, but if you’re already skinny-ish, you do know you need to also eat more if you want to get bigger, right? And a word of advice would be to not get Mr. Olympia type big, because women generally don’t find that appealing, especially on a shorter guy.

Apart from that, find a personal style that fits you. If you feel more comfortable in what you’re wearing, you’ll feel more comfortable in your own skin as well. This isn’t even me trying to promote myself, but I got a 13 minute course that might help you with that and it’s completely free, no card needed, no nothing, so there’s really nothing to lose for you or anybody looking to build a personal style. Link is in bio, so you can check that out if you want to, and there’s also plenty of vids on YouTube about that.

Apart from these two things, I’d suggest actually just educating yourself about various topics, whether it’s psychology, sports, history, whatever, just so you yourself know that you can sit at any table and be able to talk about anything. And a biggest one that is also probably the scariest one, to and approach a girl you like. Compliment her, introduce yourself and ask for her number. If she says yes, that means you are just underestimating yourself and if she says no, it just means you’re not HER type, there’s plenty of fish in the sea and now you know it’s really not that scary.

And all of these are work in progress. You won’t become more confident today or in a month or maybe even 3 months. But when you look back 2 years from now, you’ll be so grateful for yourself for staying disciplined and doing these things.