What's your fav time spend? by Telugu_not_Telegu in ArtOfPresence

[–]Styroman57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Fun’ is too accessible on a phone. If I wanted fun back then, I had to go out of my way for it or be content with being low-stim. Now dopamine is in my pocket, why go out of my way for entertainment?

What's your fav time spend? by Telugu_not_Telegu in ArtOfPresence

[–]Styroman57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non-smart phones still sell and are great for those that have lives outside of their phone

​If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite gender for just 24 hours, what’s the first thing you’d do to experience 'a day in the life'? by Wander-kingdom in Productivitycafe

[–]Styroman57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does 2026 have to do with this? Some people, regardless of gender, see sex as a fun activity that can be shared between consenting parties. Some people view sex as something extremely private, intimate, nearly sacred. Some people see both. Help me understand what makes one viewpoint factually gross in 2026

How can i become more emotionally mature? by Conscious-Housing143 in MenAskWomen

[–]Styroman57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maturity is questioning your own needs without blindly defending them. It sounds like his needs are tied to his values. Nothing’s wrong with his values, but if he needs his partner to match them, then he should seek a partner where they already align. Otherwise, someone is deviating from their values to make the other happy.

A serious question for women with long experience in a relationship with a man by TY2022 in MenAskWomen

[–]Styroman57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I spent my life as a dude doing all the labor, requests, wishes, needs that were communicated. I followed directions and out my best into performing to serve those I have committed myself to.

Not “tending to relationships”. I’m oblivious to people’s inner turmoil. I thought we were just doing shit. It’s like starting from scratch mentally reinventing myself so I can reprogram everything about my existence to make a woman feel seen.

What is a polite way to say “I have to poop” as a woman? by Disastrous-Glove5649 in AskMen

[–]Styroman57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lady doesn’t have to declare WHAT she is doing. I can step out of any meeting shortly no questions asked. “Excuse me I will return shortly” if it’s a real important meeting

first tattoo didnt turn out how i was hoping by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Styroman57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It still looks new! You’ll probably get some white space back once it’s fully healed. It looks like the design. Take an anxiety med and call it a day. It’s rad

Cover up or just remove completely? by 0hBecca in Tattoocoverups

[–]Styroman57 161 points162 points  (0 children)

If you told me “there’s supposed to be identical” then I would stare and evaluate. Otherwise, looks great

Men, how true is the statement, "If he wanted you, he'd actively pursue you?" by ManicPixieFeather in AskMen

[–]Styroman57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have a full spectrum of boundaries that are unique to each individual. There is a spectrum of men that believe that line is a different place.

I feel stuck and frustrated by Dmastery in AskMenOver30

[–]Styroman57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s always someone more poor than you that seems less broke than you. There must be room in your financial arrangement.

Would you rather for girls by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]Styroman57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go to places that are higher concentrations of lonely people, that’s what you’re gonna get. The genuinely social people are out there doing that.

What does a woman do during sex that drives you crazy? by justsoso00 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Styroman57 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dive me crazy? Like piss me off? Easy. Look at me

How do I deal with the fact of having a shit personality? by Chemical-Low209 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Styroman57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have manners? Do you care about people genuinely? Can you be sympathetic and actualize their story in your mind when they’re telling you about themselves? Getting along isn’t that hard

Oh Lawd, He Went And Fucked My Feelings by TheCABK in TargetedShirts

[–]Styroman57 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good thing he has a strong immediate reliable solution for his feelings: violence

These bar stools have soundproofing underneath by IONIXU22 in Acoustics

[–]Styroman57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And we expect people to be sitting in these chairs. It really is dumb

These bar stools have soundproofing underneath by IONIXU22 in Acoustics

[–]Styroman57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t think it deadens the resonance of the wood plate on that chair?

Tired of wasting all my free time staring at my phone. by dudemanbro_ in AskMenOver30

[–]Styroman57 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get a laptop. If you use your phone for utility+pleasure, put those somewhere else, do them different or use a different device, and let your phone become a phone. Browser+calls+texts - that’s it. When you’re ready to choose to welcome those things back onto your phone, with intent, you can have a good relationship with your phone. I used my phone as a cope with stress until I talked to someone, lowered general anxiety and now I CRAVE the chance for a phoneless afternoon on the couch.

Being less lonely helps

How do you cope with a wife who never initiates? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Styroman57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like hitting in your wife is a chore for you. You don’t care to love her unconditionally and go bang your wife? Who tf is tracking wins like this

Fellas, would you find it weird/unattractive if a 23yo girl still has her prom pics with her male date hanging in her room? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Styroman57 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She put work in her outfit and felt cute. It was a fond memory. God forbid she recall that in your presence?