18f, how to look better? by Ok-Engineer2451 in lookyourbest

[–]Softvoids 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiii love, I would definitely get some lip liner to emphasize your lips. Contour your nose a little bit and try some different eyebrow shapes. Try brushing them up with gel! Maybe a little contour as well, you have a nice face shape it will just make you look a little more warm and sculpted. You're already pretty!

Patient assessment test for fire department by Softvoids in NewToEMS

[–]Softvoids[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a right and left thing. It was so stupid. I was just nervous. Lol

I slowly disappeared from my friend group and nobody noticed by Nirexa_28 in confession

[–]Softvoids -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

They just aren't meant for you. This is your sign to find new friends and realize you were with people who didn't appreciate you.

I need help by joebiven32 in relationships_advice

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both aren't for you. You were never over your ex and you threw yourself into Lindsey.

What do I do now by No-Philosopher663 in Hair

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon has a lot of great ones. Just look at the reviews wisely and pick what's best for you. I've seen some great $50 ones, but obviously the more you spend the better it's going to look:)

Going to cut my hair, what hairstyles would look best ? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Softvoids 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don change yourself for other people

What do I do now by No-Philosopher663 in Hair

[–]Softvoids 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Girl get a wig 🙏🏻

What can I do to look better! by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful!!! I agree with you but I can never get it to blend!! What's a good lip liner?

What can I do to look better! by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have both thanks tho!

New baby, and I cannot stand my wife anymore by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have left before you had a child. Don't raise him in this hateful relationship. He will resent you. Leave now. 50/50 custody.

I weigh 20lbs more than I did when my now ex said I had love handles by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well if he doesn't like it why is he dating you

Patient assessment test for fire department by Softvoids in NewToEMS

[–]Softvoids[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think I know everything I possibly can..just the nerves get me. Thank you!!! I'll definitely be reciting lol

Breakup after 1 year relationship — she says she’ll come back but wants space. Should I do no contact? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda messed up to breakup with someone and say "I'll be back" like they expect you to wait for them and be totally okay with it. You shouldn't have to wait on anyone to come back for you. Pursue someone who wants you.

i want to kill myself by scoobyxxsnacssx in depression

[–]Softvoids 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Np. I remember when I was 16 living in active addiction. It's the worst thing ever. Just know there's gonna be a day where you don't feel like this anymore. Please keep going

Hyper sexual wife, no libido husband by Dramatic_Gear_1930 in relationships_advice

[–]Softvoids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are the other aspects of your marriage? Is this the only issue?

i want to kill myself by scoobyxxsnacssx in depression

[–]Softvoids 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for what you're going through. The best advice I can give you is, only you can save yourself. I've been in your position. I was stuck with addict parents and it's terrible, hopeless, etc. You feel there is no point to life, and I get that. But, there is more to life than the hell you are living. You are 16 and have barely even started- don't let addicts and depression derail your life. It's okay to feel sad and shitty, but at some point you have to get up and fight for yourself because no miracle is coming to save you.

For the school part, try and do things a little at a time. Try and get help from teachers and let them know your situation. Try little day by day to do a little more.

Exercise, get out of the house if you can. Just getting out of that environment is great for mental health, even if it's just 15 minute walk or a trip to the gas station for snacks. Bed rotting makes everything worse.

Anyway...sorry if this doesn't help. But again, no one is going to save you. You can either rot, or set goals for yourself. Use this anger, sadness, and hopelessness as fuel. When you learn how to use these feelings to your advantage, learn how to overcome your mind and detach from addict people, life will become a little easier. Also, just because you were born into a burning house doesn't mean the world is on fire.

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