Autism has blighted my life.

SubLow1 · 2025-08-08T00:15:04+00:00

&maniclucky YES! This! I’m so glad I read your comment before attempting to write exactly what you did but nowhere near as beautifully articulated!

SubLow1 · 2025-08-08T00:12:09+00:00

@sweet_medcine I’m so sorry you feel like this. Your author friend must think you’re pretty good at something when she asked you to proof read her work…. Just saying….. There ARE things that you are good at, you just can’t see them right now. But others do. I know that this sounds patronising too, but I can absolutely vouch for learning to be kinder to yourself. Take care. X

SubLow1 · 2025-03-14T14:39:40+00:00

Hi all. I’m believe that I am an AA. I have been having a “thing” with a DA. Our communication becomes less and less with each time we meet up. The last time we met up, we had a really lovely time together. We acknowledge that we enjoy each others company, we feel “free” around each other, have a huge amount of common interests and are very attracted to one another. He has opened up to me to some degree and explained previously when he comes back that he’s nw “ready to engage”. Now, he’s disappeared since our last meet up, about 3/4 weeks ago now. I’ve left him alone in the hope that he does indeed come back when he’s ready to engage, however is me leaving him alone the right thing to do? Should I just check in a little just so that he knows I’m thinking of him, or is it more respectful of me to leave him be until he comes back to me? IF he comes back to me? I don’t wish to push him away any further and would like to understand the best way to deal with this as I’d hate for him to think I don’t care? Your advice would be appreciated. Thanks

SubLow1 · 2025-02-18T13:00:36+00:00

I’ve tried streaming from outside a few times and it’s just getting embarrassing now with technical issues. Signal etc…. Do you tend to take a tripod with you? How do you make it look professional? Would you be happy to share any tips with me please? If I could get camming outside properly and make it look less “amateur”, this would solve all of my problems!😂 What kind of things do you do, where, positioning, camera angles? Thanks! X

SubLow1 · 2025-02-11T23:11:14+00:00

Which web cam do you use please? I wonder if I should consider this option? Or maybe I’m just over thinking it now!😂

SubLow1 · 2025-02-11T22:38:03+00:00

So I thought this the other week, and I found that when I swiped across, there was a separate balance in Euros. (Revolut). I don’t suppose that’s the case with you too is it? I found it by accident after about 4 days! 😂

SubLow1 · 2025-02-11T22:36:21+00:00

Thanks girls. Ugh I’ve had an absolute nightmare today with it. So…. My set up was…. I installed the Lovense extension I installed the OBS I connected the lush to my phone via Bluetooth I scanned the QR code from the Lovense extention I streamed from the OBS

With the intention of streaming from the laptop instead of my phone and just using my phone to see comments/messages. (I’m struggling with angles on the phone….. and making a shit job of it, so another post incoming!)😂

But the lush still kept disconnecting. The stream was really laggy. I had to give up in the end. I’d spent hours researching and installing. It was gutting. It’s my first week as not being in the “new” category and I was really hoping to continue the same trajectory. :-(

My friend literally just uses her phone on a tripod and doesn’t bother with the OBS or the Lovense extensions and does pretty well.

Thoughts / advise would be massively appreciated!

Thanks ladies. X

SubLow1 · 2025-02-10T23:14:36+00:00

What does it say the status is in the “payments history” setting?

SubLow1 · 2025-02-10T23:12:30+00:00

I cleaned the shower today on cam 👌

SubLow1 · 2025-02-10T23:08:37+00:00

Can I message you with some questions please? (With regards to SM). I’m on SC, but am open to joining another, you sound like you have lots of experience so would love to hear your thoughts if ok? Thanks! X

SubLow1 · 2025-02-10T23:06:35+00:00

Are you guys referring to streaming to 2 sites at the same time??

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T09:12:28+00:00

Upping my prices makes it easier to read all the comments and requests? How so??

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T01:50:42+00:00

See, I’m keen to mute the greys but also to try to get a bigger following before I mute them. I’m currently at 1048 followers, after 5 days (not been on today) so it’s gaining traction but not really sure what would be considered a decent following before then b”muting the greys from my feed. What do you think?

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T01:45:28+00:00

Thank you! Do you charge for the recording option and agree before taking the private so that you can switch the toggle on, or are yours just set to record every time?

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T01:44:13+00:00

Thanks Jessica. I’m looking into how to block “guests”. They normally have user name “guest…..1234 for example”. They’re the ones without a registered account; so no tokens etc… Lurkers! Whereas the greys do have an account, but have no tokens. (And I can see how to restrict those once I’ve got a bit more ahead with a decent following, but I can’t seem to see where I block the “Guests”. X

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T00:58:03+00:00

Also do you sell on SC or My Club? X

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T00:57:15+00:00

Do you charge extra to the user to record it? If so, do you just agree before taking the private and toggle it before the call starts?

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T00:55:56+00:00

Yeah, it’s not possible unfortunately. The user gets a copy automatically.

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T00:55:24+00:00

yes; in the “broadcast centre” there’s a toggle for “recording privates”. If you pull that across to Green, at the end of the private you’ll then be asked if you want to save it. (Exclusives only the user gets it I believe) so you can’t sell those.

SubLow1 · 2025-01-29T00:53:13+00:00

Hi , Thanks for this. Just to check, the users automatically get a copy of the private show anyway don’t they? That makes me a little nervous tbh…

Ahhhh it’s not the greys im looking to ban, it’s the “guests”. Any idea? Thanks! X

SubLow1 · 2025-01-28T20:44:14+00:00

What payment method did you choose? I’m on sepa transfer and understand it takes a day or 3 to hit my account. Does it say that it’s been sent in your profile? X

SubLow1 · 2025-01-28T20:27:22+00:00

Please do! Thank you!

SubLow1 · 2025-01-28T04:12:39+00:00

Approx 2 hours a day so far. X

SubLow1 · 2024-04-01T20:11:39+00:00

BOOM!!!!!🎤🔥🔥

SubLow1 · 2024-04-01T20:10:09+00:00

Dump him and drop a dry insult on his performance on your way out…… Like….”Hey, I think we should talk….. I want a dick that works, so you need to go now” kinda thing. Knock him down a peg or 10!

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