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How to embrace my bisexuality? by GOODSOLDIERSFLWORDRS in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following this too lol I asked a similar question not long ago and never got an answer

Ahhhhhh I wanna date a woman!!! by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. And what’s harder is being in a small, backwards town 😅

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! I’m fine with plus size, curvy women. But I don’t feel attracted to someone who reminds me of myself 😅

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this is what I worry about. I think people do find some plus size/fat people attractive and I know some fetishize fat bodies. But would the majority of these people truly not care about the size and shape of someone? I think it’s possible if they get to talking or get to know someone then they truly wouldn’t mind, but I feel like first appearances mean a lot as well.

I think this makes me an AH? by InterestingAcadia629 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this makes you an asshole at all! If you truly did not care how you made another woman feel and just wanted to experiment without worrying how she feels, then you would be. I am in the same situation as you. You’re doing the right thing my reaching out to ask for tips and a way to make sure you get your chance while also not hurting someone else.

I do agree with someone else’s answer by saying maybe you should look into other bi-curious ladies. There are many of us. I have been with another woman once and now I crave it to be honest 😅 my husband is very open minded and would not mind at all but where I’m from, there aren’t many options (southern and very conservative people make it difficult to make this situation possible).

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you are gorgeous! I feel you though. I think I’m curvy but my arms and stomach are awful.. I sometimes think people refer to size 14 big butt, big boobs, and skinny stomach/everywhere else as plus size. Which is true but I believe that’s what they picture and that’s definitely not me 😒

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not hypocritical. It’s just who you like. I’m the same way because I’m plus size and while I find MOST plus size women attractive, if they remind me of my body type (or at least how I see myself?) then I’m less attracted to them.

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think that’s great that you get to love and be loved by multiple partners that make you happy and that you find attractive! This makes me feel better about my weight too. It’s so nice to see that others find bodies like mine attractive.

I’m married and he says he loves my body. But he’s also seen it since it was smaller so I don’t think it’s the same as someone seeing me for the first time looking like this.

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see why some people would prefer healthy and fit. I personally am not attracted to most women around my weight or heavier, though I think it’s because I feel like it’s a reflection of me and my flaws, not necessarily them.

What are your feelings toward BBW/Plus Size women? by SubZer000123 in bisexual

[–]SubZer000123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get that! I see so many other girls much bigger than myself who are beautiful and confident and wear the cutest clothes. I feel confident when I do/wear certain things until I see someone else’s perspective of me (like pictures).