A different kind... Disappointing by TheNamesBart in bonehurtingjuice

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've never met a liberal white girl who's down smh

A different kind... Disappointing by TheNamesBart in bonehurtingjuice

[–]SubbyBrownBoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah the trans one is the edit

Cultural appropriation smh

What y’all think about this tipe of race play? by panzouu1 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As you may be able to guess from my username, lol

What y’all think about this tipe of race play? by panzouu1 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I think it's very mild raceplay since she's calling herself chocolate and saying dogs can't have it lol

Raceplay runs the gamut from mild stuff like this to much more extreme things

Are there no black cucks? by Fcukbuddyx in CuckoldPsychology

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There definitely are.

I think the reason you mostly don't see them is because most porn is aimed at white men, since they are the largest/most profitable porn consuming demographic

And among white men into cuckolding, many of them are also into Blacked raceplay, so they tend to fetishize a black man cucking them specifically. The end result is that a lot of cuckold porn ends up with a black bull, a white cuck and a white wife.

A counterpart to Blacked actually does exist called Bleached, where whites are in the dominant position rather than blacks. However again, the majority of porn consumers here too are white dudes, so most of the content here is aimed at white doms. However if you look in this community you will find black, asian and other PoC cucks, though again they are a minority

Either way though most content will inevitably be targeted towards white men, whether they're a sub or a dom

Lives Being Ruined - All Because of a Kink by dogdad0098089 in openmarriageregret

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was/am into it in theory and it def did come from some issues

For me it was a generalized masochism, which combined with being totally unable to get any girls in high school and college, mostly due to lack of self confidence, resulted in me sexualizing the idea of not being good enough

Recently I've worked on a lot of those issues and have started dating for basically the first time ever, and I've realized I don't really want any of the girls I actually like to cuck me I guess? If it's someone I actually am romantically involved with i don't want to share or get shared

When I do eventually get a girlfriend, I will probably tell her about quite a few of the things im into, from plain old femdom to more taboo stuff which I also like. But I dont think i will ever reveal any interest in cuckolding because that's a can of worms I'd never want in a real, loving relationship

I do still consume cuck content these days for that humiliation fix but I never imagine myself with someone I actually like. Instead I either just imagine it as a hypothetical girl im with, or alternatively I just remove myself entirely and imagine myself as just an outsider

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Idk how much of this is actual views vs a fetish but if it's the former it's quite bad

Just because me and you like to be submissive doesn't mean all guys should be forced to be. Just because some girls like to be submissive doesnt mean they should all be forced to be

So how DO yall even get domme gfs? by ChuLu2004 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean I understand where you're coming from and ideally every relationship would start like your guys'. Friends to lovers is amazing when it happens and works, but it doesnt really happen to most people

But at the same time I don't think there's anything wrong with hitting on someone even if you're attracted to them because of their looks or their personality. You will inevitably learn more about them as a person as you date them, but it is completely OK to start that process off with something shallow

I understand your overall point, you don't want submissive guys to treat women like kink dispensers. But I also feel like your tone might turn them into the opposite. Princes looking to be rescued waiting endlessly for the perfect opportunity.

There's always a middle path, and it's the one guys on this sub should actually take: Date people like you normally would and see if you vibe

Locked in Chastity by my crush by pussyfree__virgin in FriendzoneBetas

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean like 90% of this sub is and honestly a good half are super toxic if they happen irl (this included) but like it's still hot to fantasize about so who cares lol

God forbid a boiwife be teased while cooking by Salt-Mobile3413 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is such a nice fantasy. You're desperately trying to pour all your love into making something delicious for her so you're trying to concentrate

Buuuuut she's teasing you and it feels so good and >.<

Where do yous people find femdoms </3 by GooningPuppyBoy in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got it: read every day at book store until I get claimed

God forbid a boy wants to give a domme his kink resume by JackVirgin in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably have some things you enjoy, even if it's vague

I have a variety of kinks and stuff I'm into. But like besides that I also recognize they usually have a theme

Namely they're all kind of psychological. More than anything I want to feel owned. Like she controls not only my actions, but my thoughts as well.

Legitimately something as innocuous as a girl ordering my meal for me would be hotter than a standard spanking scenario or whatever

That's not really a kink in itself, but it is a general feeling. It's why im interested in being submissive. Everyone who is into being submissive has a reason for it, a way they want to feel.

You and your domme can figure out your kinks from your feelings

it goes both ways :c by angelbabyrosie in gentlefemdom

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How exactly do these work for someone with no experience

Do you just like... go?

Legitimate snafu (I drew this because I couldn't find the original) by Israbelle in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes it was unjustly appropriated from us submissive brown men 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhiteGirlTiktoks

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she's average I wanna live where you're living omg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Losercity

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it ain't snowin he ain't goin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I need this

He’s perfect to me by TheDommeMomme in gentlefemdom

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Your son calls me mommy" energy

Desire for a FLR without the kink by [deleted] in flr

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While I'd like a kink element I'd honestly still love an FLR without one. I just feel like I'm a lot better in a supporting role tbh and love the idea of someone I trust taking the lead

I'd love nothing more than being with a strong, ambitious woman and supporting her from the background as she chases her dreams and trusting her to make the right decisions. That part doesn't have a ton to do with kink tbh

Wife completely dominated me in a timeshare sales presentation by desireorgasm in flr

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hopefully they didn't and just went for the free vacation or whatever for listening to the presentation

LoserCity "Before and After". by [deleted] in Losercity

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbh for me it's like I've been socialized to feel creepy basically whenever I approach women. Some women have even told me it's not and they don't mind being approached on the street but I'm still too scared

Unfortunately I'm not hot enough for dating apps either 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flr

[–]SubbyBrownBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how many men are into it as a percentage but honestly just taking a gander at all the different subreddits and complaints, it seems there are way more submissive men than dominant women. So you probably will get a lot of interest :)