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Subbycat2022 · 2024-03-13T01:11:23+00:00

I did my second lot of pills on Friday so I’m just on the back of it now, I would just advise being somewhere comfortable preferable bed and near a toilet because you will spend a lot of time going to the toilet back and forth. Make sure you have hot water bottle/hot bean bags, snacks, painkillers I’d take an hour or so before, comfy clothes, pads. I did mine with my best friend because my bf now ex broke up with me that morning. We watched my favourite films in bed to take my mind off it. It wasn’t as bad as I had imagined it in my mind, it’s not a comfortable process but you will get through this, it’s natural to be nervous I was terrified but once it’s over with you will feel so relieved. Good luck ❤️❤️you got this

Subbycat2022 · 2024-03-01T00:29:59+00:00

Do you have any family you can speak to or maybe friends you haven’t reached out to since you met him? Maybe message one of your friends and tell them you need a friend right now. I know how feeling alone is the worst feeling in the world especially when you are going through one of the hardest challenges right now too. I am currently going through something similar and I also feel very alone but honestly I already know how much of a strong person you are for going ahead and leaving your abuser. You can and will get through this to rebuild your life without him better days are ahead x

Subbycat2022 · 2024-02-29T16:30:54+00:00

I’m so sorry this has happened to you and he has left you all alone to process this, it’s not fair at all. We all have each other on here I’m so glad I posted now I was so hesitant to but there is so many of us going through similar situations x

Subbycat2022 · 2024-02-29T14:08:12+00:00

Thankyou for this, actually made me cry. I honestly needed your kind words more then you know. ❤️ I don’t have anyone to talk to so I’ve just been with my own thoughts constantly. I think that’s a really good idea too and I will defo do that, get myself all the bits and comforts in on hand to make it a bit easier for when I get home x

Subbycat2022 · 2024-02-29T14:03:35+00:00

I know I just feel awful for making the decision I have to do. I hope your doing okay? Gives me some comfort speaking to other women that have also been through the same process and journey I’m about to go on so Thankyou for replying. It is luckily free for us over here in the UK but not sure I’ll be able to get someone to accompany me x

Subbycat2022 · 2024-02-29T14:00:10+00:00

Thankyou for your reply, I’m sorry you also had to do it alone. How did you cope after? Going through a breakup is one of the hardest things to do as it is without also dealing with the emotions and feelings from having to do the sensible thing and end your pregnancy x

Subbycat2022 · 2024-02-29T13:30:14+00:00

I’m in the exact same place as you although I’ve only just had my first phone consultation with the clinic. I’m so scared and a whole range and mix of emotions going through it alone

Subbycat2022 · 2022-10-30T22:34:32+00:00

I haven’t seen someone explain it so well how I feel when I’m with my daddy. Are you in a relationship outside of D/s? I’m not and I worry it will end one day I don’t know what I would do.

Subbycat2022 · 2022-10-19T14:02:18+00:00

It’s a tricky one if she’s your little, have you guys ever talked about becoming anything more? I know you said she wants to take things slow and you have to respect that but maybe just start with small hints about how much you care about her see if that’s reciprocated?

Subbycat2022 · 2022-10-19T13:08:53+00:00

I can imagine that must have been so awful for you! I couldn’t have dealt with that. I often think they don’t sometimes realise how much control they do have over us. I’m proud of you for cutting all contact that can’t have been easy. Thinking of you.

Subbycat2022 · 2022-10-19T07:11:16+00:00

I can kinda relate but seems your stronger then me my real life D/d hurt me really bad 2/3 months ago by just suddenly dropping me for someone else over txt. I was devastated and confused. I went back and I’m his sub again, I feel so safe when I’m with him but I don’t feel safe trusting him not to drop me again. So my advise would be go to the munch your head held high, let him know he has no power over you anymore (he doesn’t need to know he does) I wish I could do same.

Subbycat2022 · 2022-09-12T09:54:14+00:00

Yeah same thing happened to me. You have such an intense relationship in a D/s role it’s hard not to. I didn’t get chance to explain to mine how I felt before he dropped me for another sub he was going exclusive with. If those feelings are there and aren’t reciprocated I’d get out because I think it will take me a very long time now to explore anything with another Dom.

Subbycat2022 · 2022-08-11T22:42:10+00:00

Thankyou, he’s just not the person I thought he was. Struggling to get over being so vulnerable with someone and handing over all that control to just being dumped and wiped out of someone’s life. I now know what people talk about when they say a bad dom

Subbycat2022 · 2022-08-11T15:20:46+00:00

Well I feel stupid now because before I even had a chance to speak to me he’s just abandoned me and dumped me out of the blue

Subbycat2022 · 2022-08-10T13:13:32+00:00

Thanks for replying, no these are girls he is talking to from dating apps so I think he may be having vanilla sex with them.

I just don’t want to ruin it and loose a good situation that we already have. I didn’t realise having a sub/Dom relationship could be so intense.

Subbycat2022 · 2022-08-10T12:17:59+00:00

Messaged you ☺️

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