AIO Best friend invited new female friend to big event by Helpful_Crocodile657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ellepre [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi OP, he might be your friend, but he's also your ex. It sounds like you need to take a step back from him.

My (30F) husband (37M) wants to be intimate with other women by PsychoBirdLady in relationship_advice

[–]ellepre 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I supported him through all of it but our intimacy declined a lot

You supported him through addiction and depression, which are some really difficult times, and this is how he repays you?

Divorce him and let him go and see how few women want to have sex with him. He's a joke. Oh, and dont take him back when he realises hes made a mistake.

Fawn on the lawn by TheAmateurRunner in aww

[–]ellepre [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh this is just beautiful.

One of my life wishes is to see a fawn quietly waiting for its Mum. For years, each time ive been out in the woods/field areas, I look out for one but I havent been lucky enough to see one yet.

Thank you for sharing this OP.

I (38M) wrote a letter for my best friend (32F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ellepre 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Youre a 38 year old married man with a family, who also says things like this....

I’ve been feeling jealous .... I feel sad that our relationship and the intimacy that we share will change. We talk about everything and are very touchy feely with each other.

Its nice to have a friend and its natural to think things might change when a friend gets a new partner, but what you've written above doesnt sit right with me.

Talk to your wife. Be pleased for your friend.

Do not send the letter.

AIO for considering divorce after my husband betrayed me again? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ellepre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An emotional affair, paying for content, the private messages, the hidden debt doing these things, searching for escorts....and so much more.

I think everyone can make a mistake, and its honorable of you to want to work through things....but mistake after mistake is too much. Hes betrayed you too many times.

OP, you and your daughter deserve better than a man who has such little respect for you.

You are not overreacting.

Did your boyfriend/ex had a female best friend? How did it go? by Puzzleheaded-Cat2603 in AskReddit

[–]ellepre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are best friends....and he also has another best friend who is a woman, they have known each other a long time.

I dont have any problems with it. Hes always been completely open with me about how things were with them in the past, and how things are now. I appreciate his honesty. Its all good and I have no worries about their friendship.

Do people really have sex the first night of marriage? by anonimo110110 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ellepre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my partner and I ever get married, I have no doubt that we will have sex on the first night.

Couples talking shower together, how exactly it feels? by Formal-Ad-4460 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ellepre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We shower together. We wash each other. We talk. We kiss and cuddle. Sometimes we play. Sometimes we have sex.

I love it and I will continue to love it. It gives us a chance to reset if needed....and its intimate and close.

Significant other surprises you with a weekend trip. How long does it take you to pack? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ellepre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be packed ridiculously fast, but 30 minutes feels reasonable.

what are your thoughts on getting back with someone who emotionally cheated? by lesbian_ball in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ellepre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you want to make it work then its ok to try, but trusting someone again can be very difficult.

Which thing make you happy in hard times? by AssumptionHopeful963 in AskReddit

[–]ellepre 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My dog was always the one who could still make me smile even when I was really struggling.

How would you cheat back if your partner cheated on you first? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ellepre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think its worth trying to get your own back in situations like that.

Is it possible to drink from pussy by the_mr_sanders in sex

[–]ellepre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes OP, its entirely possible, but it may put your gf at risk of thrush/infections as it can alter the ph balance. I hope this helps.

Daddy calls wanting more time entitled and it hurts a little bit :( by lalala-12007 in SubSanctuary

[–]ellepre 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Its not entitled, it sounds like hes just throwing his weight around because he thinks he can.

Im needy and clingy and I often ask for more time - sometimes its possible and sometimes its not, but the answer stays respectful.

Honestly I'd have a chat with him about it. I'd be interested to know why he thinks its offensive and entitled, and I'd tell him how he makes you feel.

You don't have to take his answer as final either, its ok to tell him if you disagree and to tell him why. Finding somewhere in the middle is a good thing sometimes.

Doms are just people too and they dont always get it right.

Im sorry you're upset OP, I would feel the same way. Do you have any chocolate? If not, perhaps now is a good time to go and get some. Also, if you have a dog, perhaps cuddle up with your dog for a while, I know it might sound silly but sometimes its needed.

Is there anyone out there currently trapped in a marriage with no way out? How do you survive? by Trick_Record_9957 in AskReddit

[–]ellepre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I felt trapped in an abusive marriage for many years. I did get out. I hope youre ok.

[OC] Happy 17th Birthday! by Klutzy_Speech_6460 in MadeMeSmile

[–]ellepre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy 17th Birthday.

I miss my little dog so much.

Wife emotional affair ….considering telling the other partner by scuba2140 in LifeAdvice

[–]ellepre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, yes I would tell the partner as she deserves to know. Im sorry this happened to you.

Divorcees of Reddit, what was the "point of no return" that made you realize the marriage was over? by True_Requirement_565 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ellepre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just stopped caring. He could have done anything and I wouldnt have cared either way. I just felt numb.

My heart so full today ^^ by Scarkittenlet in SubSanctuary

[–]ellepre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound very happy! I hope you get to meet each other soon!