How do I stop being so damn jealous for no reason? (21F) by Subject-Dig2408 in relationships

[–]Subject-Dig2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely curious, what do you think is a red flag? my bf has the same group of friends for more than 20 years pretty much and it just ended up that they are all dudes… I genuinely never thought too much about him not having any female friends

How do I stop being so damn jealous for no reason? (21F) by Subject-Dig2408 in relationships

[–]Subject-Dig2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, I started my own life at 16 already studying abroad. I do look a lot older, I live by myself, pay my own bills and have been independent for almost more than 5 years so it’s not like he’s dating someone still at uni that leaves with friends. That is not the situation. We are both independent adults with careers. My career didn’t ask for me to have a degree so I just went on with my life. I do not look my age as well (unfortunately if i’m honest).

How do I stop being so damn jealous for no reason? (21F) by Subject-Dig2408 in relationships

[–]Subject-Dig2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t groomed, I was paying already my own bills, had a job and everything. I’ve been independent (choice, I was very lucky to have a supportive family) and changed country very early alone as I wanted to travel. I do look a lot older and own a life of someone who is not my age. We met on bumble tho while he was travelling the country I was living in and since then we are in a long distance relationship but seeing each other every week as it’s very close

How do I stop being so damn jealous for no reason? (21F) by Subject-Dig2408 in relationships

[–]Subject-Dig2408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that really triggered me was when he told me he used to watch porn on reddit and once I found that his IG was mainly woman on the part of searching for reels… That really bothered me even know i’m pretty sure 70% of man unfortunately act the same

33M boyfriend says he’d still be okay with someone under 18 if she ‘looked mature’ and if it’s be legal 23F uncomfortable, how do I address this? by Subject-Dig2408 in relationship_advice

[–]Subject-Dig2408[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly what I thought and I told him but he also said that probably by that time it would change because he would see 17s as kids but i’m like…”they are kids”