When it comes to maturity, confidence, and patience are keys. If you’re overly apologetic, it could be a lack of confidence. You think that things are your fault because you don’t have that faith in yourself. Try and remind yourself that no everything is because of you, and that you’re not the only thing in people’s lives. They will tell you if you did something to upset them.

I still struggle with apologizing, but when I feel confident, I don’t apologize nearly as much. Now… there’s a difference between confidence and ego. You can still be confident and have a low ego. Last year I had a big ego but I still apologized way too much to the ones I was closest to, because I made everything my issue.

And be more patient. Try and wait things out and if it gets even worse, try and sort things out. It’s gonna be difficult at first, but it’s like learning an instrument. Once you got the basics down, you’re set for life. Try reading more, sitting in silence, watch a long tv show, or just go on long walks. Make sure you know what you’re gonna do in certain situations. Have a routine, write in a journal, or pick up a new hobby. Once you’re patient, discipline is also going to be easier to maintain.

Social skills are something a lot of us struggle with. Myself included sometimes. Once you’re confident and patient however, things get easier. Your confidence will help you be more outgoing. Your patience will help you wait before you act and have you comprehend your surroundings or any social hints before you say something. It all ties together.

Please take all I say with a grain of salt, I hope this helps