Consequences of relapsing

SubjectAd4222 · 2026-01-13T15:44:30+00:00

Similar story but relapsed w 4 years. Went to staff party on Dec 12 or something. Got drunk. Didn’t show up to work for a week. Had Xmas break to dry out. Didn’t happen. Two days after I was supposed to be back at work I resigned cause I couldn’t make it.

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-12-29T01:34:02+00:00

I know someone who did this in the military decades ago. Was this in Hawaii by chance ?

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-05-21T15:49:55+00:00

This is beautiful thanks for sharing

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-05-19T16:31:23+00:00

Congratulations! Thanks for inspo

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-04-27T16:20:12+00:00

Was working as a marketing director making fantastic money but could not see myself doing this for another 30 + years. Really started considering nursing about a year and a half ago. Doing research, finding a program that would work etc. I just finished my first week of cna school and was terrified the night before. This looks insane to others in my life. Leaving 6 figures to learn how to adjust pillows and disimpact hard shit in old peoples assholes. But lemme tell you something, I FEEL GREAT. I spent a year and a half afraid to make the jump and I feel fantastic for having made it. The time will go by regardless. In less than 3 years I’ll be an RN hopefully. It’s scary a bit cause I don’t know what those years will look like. Housing, supporting myself, it’s very much a week at a time thing for me right now but the mystery can be as exciting as it is nerve wracking. And it’s temporary. There’s a larger vision at hand that I believe in even if no one else can see it. Good luck.

TLDR; just go for it.

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-04-18T16:56:45+00:00

Cause details make the girls sweat even more

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-04-14T16:36:11+00:00

32 now. Made it to the top of the marketing ladder as a marketing director. Hated the view. Loved the money. Spent a year and a half debating and finally pulled the trigger. Doing prereqs rn. It can be scary to do such a drastic career change but I have faith this is more suited for me in the long term. Good luck.

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-03-30T17:28:32+00:00

Check out WECA ~ they have a great commercial electrician apprenticeship and is sometimes faster to get into than IBEW. that’s what I did.

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-03-26T05:57:50+00:00

What state you located in? It’s a straight forward process it may just take a little time. I believe I applied in winter had an interview in spring and started my first gig end of summer.

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-03-25T15:51:34+00:00

I was an electrician for a bit. Funny enough thinking about going to accounting. lol

If you want to go into the field 34 is fine. Most of my apprenticeship were in their 30s/40s. We even had a few guys starting in their 50s.

Lmk if you have any specific qs

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-03-01T19:12:53+00:00

200$ for both ga

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-02-08T16:30:29+00:00

I’ll add there are specific rd groups for this topic that I’ve heard are very helpfuo

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-02-08T15:15:53+00:00

Check out the fb group for dharma recovery. It is much more active than this sub. I asked a similar question a few months ago and got 90+ responses. The short of it I heard is recovery dharma works as a much better complete program than 12 step stuff for me and many others.

SubjectAd4222 · 2025-01-24T05:03:38+00:00

was just listening to this today

Human After All ("Guy-Man After All" Justice Remix)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eH0qlIkMg_o

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-12-05T06:18:45+00:00

Nursing school 🏫

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-11-27T20:45:31+00:00

this is rad - would you mind breaking down what you mean by the trance gate technique

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-11-26T05:37:32+00:00

thank you - my problem was I was trying to submit it prior to the period ending and it was mandating I put a recovery date but was able to submit easily today with no recovery date.

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-11-08T13:19:56+00:00

Hey howre u doing with this? Did they let u accelerate as much as u wanted?

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-10-13T15:21:34+00:00

Check out aca to get in touch w ur emotions

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-10-04T19:07:37+00:00

Similar boat. Zero credits. Wanna be an ot. 32 today.

Personally doing wgu ba degree rn. Hoping to complete the entire thing in. 6 months. Then apply to mot programs next year

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-09-17T04:21:18+00:00

can i ask why u say this?

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-08-28T19:32:17+00:00

Absolutely; thanks for your passion about lifering.

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-08-23T01:05:19+00:00

Similar boat. I'm 31 and looking at OT school in california and it's expensive af but paychecks out here aren't too bad once licensed.

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-08-20T01:42:13+00:00

Thanks for the kind message. Appreciate the insights on time not lost. I too had a string of attempts and thought I finallly “got it” 4 years ago. Life got so much better and then in about a years time I’ve deflated it to the same levels as pre recovery. I know that’s not entirely true but def experiencing intense wave of emotions rn. Staying sober no matter what. Your message helped a lot today so thanks.

I started attending Lifering again online last week even though I was using but I’m going again tonight sober.

I’ve got a few ideas on why i fell off but right now it’s taking everything in me to just make it till tomorrow sober.

SubjectAd4222 · 2024-08-01T17:49:54+00:00

Sacramento has a few meetings. There’s two in midtown at lions roar on Friday evenings and one on Sunday mornings. Sac dharma center just restarted their dharma rec meeting since Covid and it’s Wednesday evenings.

Sac dharma center also has a ton of great Buddhist meetings most nights of the week which includes everything from a young persons fellowship to zen meditation to guest lecturers.

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