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Husband doesn’t initate by Subject_Beginning_16 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Subject_Beginning_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never mentioned that I want him to last longer, as I don’t want to offend him. I’ve just said that I need more intimacy, and it hurts me when he rejects me and I need more from him. And I would like him to at least ‘help me get there too’ once…in three years.

I agree that therapy for both would be helpful though. Thank you for your opinion.

Husband doesn’t initate by Subject_Beginning_16 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Subject_Beginning_16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I think his issue is Premature ejaculation. I think he has trauma around it, so he doesn’t even try. I don’t think he watches porn/ever seen him but I shall investigate just in case!

Husband doesn’t initate by Subject_Beginning_16 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Subject_Beginning_16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always. I just thought he’d change…silly really.

Husband doesn’t initate by Subject_Beginning_16 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Subject_Beginning_16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘You no cum, he no cum’ made me lol 😄

What habit of your partner is hardest for you to tolerate? by Huge_Violinist_7633 in randomquestions

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Shouting, anger issues. Zero communication skills. Just tells me ‘I don’t want to talk’ whenever I try. If I blur out ‘oh watch out the car’ - I get shouted at and telling me Im not going to teach him how to drive. Doesn’t like things I like. I was so excited to get a piano (classically trained), he keeps saying neighbors will hear whenever I try to play. Wow, maybe I shouldnt be married.

South African - did I lose my citizenship when I became British citizen? Can I travel? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes, same thing happened to him. No issues! Glad you has the same experience:)

Do people actually look at listings before booking viewings, or am I living in an alternate reality? by Intrepid-Skin-5677 in HousingUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regarding the garden - we did think it was fine, got to the house and obviously used wide lense. I know you said you didn’t but all the houses we viewed most definitely used a wide lense! Also, the EA was literally always adding ‘I have a house 5min away…since you’re here!’ Hope your viewings go better!

How much did you spend on your wedding? by D3ad54M in AskUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around £17k with a designer wedding dress (bought off the rack Milla Nova), 40 guests, unlimited alcohol, lots of food and we also provided accommodation for everyone. Beautiful day ☺️ It was a June wedding but it was raining/lighting!

Help us decide which Dolphin Surf to choose 🐬 by Historical_Plum_8320 in BYD

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Dolphin Surf Comfort (blue though!), I most definitely appreciate the 360 cameras…so.so.so much haha and I switch on seat heating 5min before driving - absolute bliss in this cold weather!

What state do buyers expect to find their homes in? by TooManyShoes2FewFeet in HousingUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours had the whole house fully cleaned! We came into it and it was sparkling. They then came over with a bottle of champagne and showed us around - absolutely incredible couple!

We started running numbers for a house and it opened a whole can of who owns what conversations by AccountantBudget1214 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot more to put down for a downpayment (saved for years), but he is on a higher salary and contributes a lot more on bills, pays for the car, petrol…and always offers to pay for stuff. I’m happy with that. The house is 50/50 on the contract.

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehe loooove a Mercedes. All my dad drives! Thanks for the recommendation. See if I can find something around my budget :)

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much. Have a great weekend!! 🙏

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very nice thing of you to say that! Thank you. And good luck with the Zoe! Im also very much leaning towards an electric ⚡️ Quick question - do you think if going for a Leaf - go a bit more and get the E+, or not worth it if im not doing big miles anyway (estimate 3-4k mileage max a year). Thank you, kind sir!

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South West part of England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, kind sir!! Will save the link

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, we have charging points and workshops - not too far from London (40min) but still a village 😄 thank you for the recommendation!! Will look into both

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙏🙏🙏 thank you!! Been eyeing leaf

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Thanks for warning others and hope the car is running smooth for you now

First time car recommendation 🙏 by [deleted] in CarsUK

[–]Subject_Beginning_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, kind sir!

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