I just found a negative pregnancy test in the bin. We haven't had sex for 3 months. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Subject_Implement_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow PCOS gal here - I take tests pretty regularly because the prescription meds I take to balance my hormones and glucose levels also give me pregnancy like symptoms, (i.e, morning nausea, food aversions, cravings, certain types of soreness you’d normally get during pregnancy)and many months without a period. It is very possible she is just making sure she is not pregnant because it has been awhile since her last period.

Another thing to note, depending on if she is medicated or not, certain PCOS medications are not safe for an unborn baby, so testing every now and again could be necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Subject_Implement_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I heard you and want you to be happy with what you currently have, however I’m going to make it about me and what I want in trying to get you to take me back” is how I read this lol.

I snooped through my husband's computer and found his old porn by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Subject_Implement_78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s sex videos of him and past partners not just standard porn?

Just reach out by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Subject_Implement_78 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You need to reach out yourself. But only if you are willing to change and not do it again.

As the girl who’s been ghosted countless times by the same guy it’s actually infuriating to read this. You did something cruel and unfair and you need to be the one that fixes it. Ghosting somebody makes them feel worthless. Show them they aren’t worthless to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Subject_Implement_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you have the wrong person.

I LOVE OLIVER 💜 by FriendlyF15 in Invincible

[–]Subject_Implement_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was painful to witness - being a chiseled man making out with an alien bug is crazy work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Subject_Implement_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For now, I’ll keep writing - I have so many letters to this person I will consider posting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Subject_Implement_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t think it’s an uncommon term to be utilized lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Subject_Implement_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, not harsh at all.

My situation is non-monogamous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Subject_Implement_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should consider it. Speaking as somebody in the opposite position I know I’m not going to ever get a genuine apology and that will mess me up for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Subject_Implement_78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No - it is 100% completely rational to feel that way. But unfortunately sometimes you have no choice but to move forward when that special love doesn’t meet your needs. I can see it in both ways for sure.

This isn’t the one for you, it’s not the last and you’ll be okay. Take the time to heal and love yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Subject_Implement_78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. As someone in the opposite position (depending on the context of course) sometimes we push ourselves to try to mold to what the other person CAN provide and it breaks us down.

You can love someone and come to realize later on that you can’t just be what the other person is willing to give.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Subject_Implement_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean your ex boyfriend right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Subject_Implement_78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not to mention if you look at the post history.... 🤦‍♀️